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Melania has made a terrible mistake hasn't she?

349 replies

LadyGlitterSparklesSeriously · 20/01/2017 09:36

Trump prods reluctant Melania to speak

She doesn't want to be there.

I feel quite sorry for her.

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GreenGinger2 · 21/01/2017 17:55

I really feel for her. She does look trapped,their body language spoke volumes. And the way he forced her to speak.Sad

Wonder if they'll split soon.

Postchildrenpregranny · 21/01/2017 17:56

Preferred Karens dress Am sure Melania had VPL too(shallow ,me? )

hollyisalovelyname · 21/01/2017 18:10

You make your choice, you take your chances.
Trump had 2 ex wives already. Mage wasn't naive.
She can always escape the gilded cage.
Stunning looking women, both Melania and Ivanka.

MrsGuyOfGisbo · 21/01/2017 18:15

Gorgeous coat though!

MitzyLeFrouf · 21/01/2017 18:23

'Jewishness passes through the female line mitzy'

I'm aware of that thanks but the fact remains that they're a Jewish family. Still, maybe that's what makes them more palatable to someone like Stephen Bannon.

mathanxiety · 21/01/2017 18:30

The first born daughter of the president is the First Daughter anyway. The rest are second daughter of the first family etc.

'First' refers to the First Family, and all its members are First Spouse or Son or Daughter - 'First' doesn't refer to position within the First Family. All of Trump's children are First Daughter or First Son. (This is despite the fact that there are three different mothers, only one of whom is the First Lady).

Peregrina · 21/01/2017 18:49

Yes she is with a dick, but we've all been there.
No, I am not married to a twice divorced man, and no, DH isn't president of anything - not even the local film society.

GruffaloPants · 21/01/2017 19:03

How is Donald Trump Jewish? His mother was from the western isles - Presbyterian.

I feel sorry for Melania too. She's married to Trump ffs.

MitzyLeFrouf · 21/01/2017 19:04

No one is saying Trump is Jewish. His daughter converted to Judaism when she married her Jewish husband.

Chippednailvarnishing · 21/01/2017 19:05

She's married to Trump ffs

Her choice.

GruffaloPants · 21/01/2017 19:12

Sorry I misread, thought it was being said the whole family are Jewish.

I think it's possible to feel sorry for people who have made unwise choices, like Melania Trump. If she loves Donald and they have a great, mutually supportive respectful relationship she can laugh off the pity.

poochiepants · 21/01/2017 19:13

My money's on Ivanka's husband running for office at some point........

BuntyFigglesworthSpiffington · 21/01/2017 19:22

On the one hand my natural instinct towards anyone forced to share a bed with that toad is horror and sympathy. And then I remember she chose to marry that toad so my sympathy lessens somewhat. She definitely doesn't look happy at the turn her life has taken in becoming First Lady. I'm sure she'd prefer to live a life of relative anonymity in Manhattan. I say relative anonymity because no doubt she's reveled in the wealth and prestige that comes with marrying a very wealthy man. So on balance I don't hate her or anything but my advice would definitely be LTB.

Bluntness100 · 21/01/2017 19:26

I'd say melania clearly doesn't like the massive press attention, yes she was a model, but this is very different indeed. She's clearly very nervous in the huge media spotlight she's now under as well as public speaking and many many people would feel the same.

I'm not in agreement that should have prevented him from going for president, simply that if he gets it to then limit her role, which is exactly what's he's doing. After this his daughter is stepping in. Fair enough.

I suspect it's more a marriage of convenience now, but I don't know them and I don't know what goes on behind closed doors. She may agree with his views, she may agree with some and disagree with others. Like any marriage. She may love him, they have been together nearly twenty years, and like his previous wives she could have left.

I feel sorry for her only to the extent she's in a very unique situation with the media that only a hand full of people really ever go through and it clearly makes her nervous.

Amandahugandkisses · 21/01/2017 19:41

Being twice divorced or a president doesn't make you a dick. Your views and personality do.
And we've all been out with or married to a prick at some point was my point. It doesn't make her a nasty person.

ChardonnayKnickertonSmythe · 21/01/2017 20:08

And we've all been out with or married to a prick at some point was my point

You seem to have a very low opinion of most women, and men.

Amandahugandkisses · 21/01/2017 20:27

Confused how have you deduced that?
Quite the reverse in fact. I do believe that we are all human beings and capable of differing choices at differing times in our lives. I do not believe however, that our choice of partner however bad, necessarily reflects upon us. Like I said it does not make her ( Melania) a nasty person and deserving of all the hatred thrown at her.

PickledCauliflower · 21/01/2017 21:04

If anyone is Jewish - why would it matter?

squoosh · 21/01/2017 21:06

Ask Trump's pals at Breitbart.

PickledCauliflower · 21/01/2017 21:07

Is it ok now to slag someone off for being Jewish - or having Jewish connections?
I'm not having a pop, but I am just wondering what is acceptable these days.
I'm not on social media, so I may have missed something.

TiggyD · 21/01/2017 21:13

If the idea was to pick a rich guy just before he died, yup, she seems to have picked the wrong one. Although the pressure of being president should speed things up a bit for her.

MitzyLeFrouf · 21/01/2017 21:20
Confused

I asked how Ivanka who identifies as Jewish can bear to align herself with people like chief strategist Bannon who promotes anti semitism and white supremacy on his website. It's her father's cronies on the alt right who have a problem with Jewish people.

Bluntness100 · 21/01/2017 21:25

If the idea was to pick a rich guy just before he died, yup, she seems to have picked the wrong one

sympatico1 · 21/01/2017 21:28

Last year, whilst on holiday in Slovenia, where Melania is from, our tour guide said he knew her personally as she had lived close by. He said she was a lovely lady, who was still very down to earth, despite being famous. He went on to say that she was really keen to help her fellow Slovenians and had used her fame in a positive way to help her country and had carried out various good deeds. So she does sound like quite a nice person, so God only knows what she must think of Trump's behaviour during the election.

Chippednailvarnishing · 21/01/2017 21:28

I'm guessing his life expectancy shortens each and every time he opens his obnoxious gob to speak.