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WynterBlossom · 09/01/2017 19:33

To message my exes new gf to advise her I am pregnant as I have reasons to believe he hasn't told her...realistically I know it's not my business whether she knows or not as she will likely find out once the baby arrives, however, I feel if she knows now & the circumstances...then she can get her head around it just in case he decides he wants contact with our son as I'd like to meet her too!

To message ex when the baby is here??

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GizmoFrisby · 10/01/2017 06:09

Op you sound very distressed. And I also think I commented on your last post about the csa. Firstly you need to calm down,the stress is no good for your unborn baby and if you continue to throw strops and behave in such an immature manner the ss will get involved.

I believe you are only trying to contact this lady as you are struggling to deal with the fact your ex has moved on and left you pregnant. You need to focus on you and the baby as I doubt he will return,especially acting like you are. Your soon to be a mother and quite frankly you sound about 11.

Let your ex get on with his new girlfriend and concentrate on your child and your own MH. Then you will be able to move on and see things clearer.

SomethingLikeFlying · 10/01/2017 06:16

Gosh. When she does find out hopefully for her sake she runs a mile!

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