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neighbour using my drive when I'm out.

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birdladyfromhomealone · 09/01/2017 16:25

I came home early this morning just after 11am as i have had a chest infection since before Xmas and was struggling at work.
When I got home there were two cars on my drive, one park almost touching my front window and the other one at an angle beside it.
This is the only way to get two cars on the driveway so whoever it was parking there must know the driveway well and how to get two cars on it.
Outside on the road is permit parking and no parking between 10 and 12am.
This is to stop commuters and shoppers parking as we are five minutes from a huge indoor shopping centre.
I had to park behind them blocking them in and blocking the pavement also.
I left a note on my car for the traffic warden
Please knock on door as I have to obstruct the pavement due to two illegally parked cars on my drive.
half an hour later my next door neighbour in his 70's who we NEVER see knocks on my door.
Totally unapologetic and says one car belongs to his wife's carer as she cant park on the road due to restrictions and the other is a neighbour from up the road who uses our driveway when we are at work as her driveway is not big enough.
Even though I was fuming he still just didnt seen to think it was a problem even saying.
Well when your at work your not using it and at least it makes it look like some one is home.
I told him to get them moved straight away.
The carer came round looking really sheepish and asked would I mind if she parked during the restrictions between 10 and 12 as she has been given a ticket in the past. I said fine if no one is in but why cant my neighbour move his car off his drive to enable his wife's carers to park. He cant afford £40 a year to pay for a permit for his carers?
The other car nearly touching my front window is still there so I have put a not on it.
Caroline, I have reported your car to the police as an abandoned vehicle. Since then Nicholas has told me he gave you permission to park here. Nicholas has no business or authority to use our driveway. It would have been polite and neighbourly to at least have asked permission. If your car is parked on my driveway again I will be reporting you to the police.
Tomorrow if I am feeling better I am off the B&Q to buy a chain and paddlock so they cant use my drive!

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PUGaLUGS · 09/01/2017 17:20

Fuck that for a game of soldiers. How bloody rude and cheeky. Chain and paddlock a good idea.

Bibblitybob · 09/01/2017 17:21

So cheeky! Shock

downwardfacingdog · 09/01/2017 17:22

Can someone post a picture of a penguin bollard?! I need to see one, but evidently Googling is jot the way to goGrin OP YANBU. Cheeky fuckers!

londonrach · 09/01/2017 17:23

No to all including carer. Suggest you chain driveway now. Very checky neighbours. How long this gone on. Pity you cant invoice them for parking

Serin · 09/01/2017 17:23

Can't believe the cheek of Nicholas. Maybe Caroline thinks he actually asked you and cleared it with you?

Be careful WRT giving the carer permission to park, if she has an accident on your driveway now I think she could possibly sue?

Ilovewillow · 09/01/2017 17:23

Bloody cheek! I would be fuming - stupid thing is if someone asked me I would probably agree to be neighbourly but it's the assumption that would have me fuming!

Chippednailvarnishing · 09/01/2017 17:24

Ta dah!

neighbour using my drive when I'm out.
SharkSkinThing · 09/01/2017 17:25

This is beyond cheeky.

BUT!

I too am desperate to know what penguin bollards are! The temptation to Google is excruciating!

londonrach · 09/01/2017 17:25

For those scared to goggle...now im going to be followed by them...

neighbour using my drive when I'm out.
neighbour using my drive when I'm out.
SharkSkinThing · 09/01/2017 17:26

Ahhhh. 🐧🐧🐧

SharkSkinThing · 09/01/2017 17:26

Thank you!

stoopido · 09/01/2017 17:27

I would start parking on their drive and see how they feel! I have had many problems with people parking across my driveway. I remember the day I got a new drive put in and the very next day my neighbour parked across it blocking me from using it!

sunshine11 · 09/01/2017 17:28

I feel cross for you just reading this. Whether you rent or own your house YOU are paying for the right to park there, not them.

However, I don't think you can expect them to change, you will need to effect the change. I would suggest having a bollard installed. Or, agree they will pay you rent to park there?

birdladyfromhomealone · 09/01/2017 17:28

aahh they are lovely! I WANT some.
I am normally home by 4.30pm so it looks like Caroline is too scared to come and move her car knowing I know!!!

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Hippywannabe · 09/01/2017 17:28

It is outrageous that people think that they can park on someone else's property to make their lives easier so they don't have to pay or walk. I have a double drive to make MY life easier not anyone else's! Ridiculous!

MargoChanning · 09/01/2017 17:29

May I say how refreshing it is to see a Mumsnetter immediately taking action against cheeky fuckers, instead of the usual 'but what should I do, I haaaaaate confrontation!' post.

I salute you, OP! Grin

user1478860582 · 09/01/2017 17:30

Do you know anyone with a landrover to pull the bugger off the drive?

PixieMiss · 09/01/2017 17:30

Caroline can't leave it there forever 😂😂

ChestyNutsRoastingOnAnOpenFire · 09/01/2017 17:33

I need some penguin bollards Grin

MadMags · 09/01/2017 17:34

My evening will now be spent waiting for Caroline to collect her car.

SharkSkinThing · 09/01/2017 17:35

I think we should all dress up as penguins and surround Caroline's car.

Just to -freak her out- make a point.

zzzzz · 09/01/2017 17:35

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OhSuckItUpDucky · 09/01/2017 17:35

You took it for the team Londonrach Grin

Sparkletastic · 09/01/2017 17:35

Breathtakingly presumptuous. Nicholas must have tipped Caroline off. She's probably lurking furtively in a shrubbery waiting for you and DH to leave.

SharkSkinThing · 09/01/2017 17:35

Massive strike through fail.....