To no expect to receive a text 5mins before a date asking if I am on the pill!

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Seriously, first date since divorce 5 years ago. Met on POF and both seemed to want the same thing, not just a one night stand or anything like it. So arranged dated tonight, booked babysitter, did all the usual stuff spent money on clothes and hair , make up stuff and hour getting looking really pretty stunning (and its not easy to say that) and then 5 mins before he is due I get a random text asking if I am on the pill!!!!!!!
WFT?
when I said not sure why that's relevant and made it clear its not something he needed to know for tonight anyway, he tells me that we have got our wires crossed and ghosts me!!!
So had to pay and send babysitter away and now embarrassed and feeling like wow crap.

Is this all there is left?

Had to google ghosting. What a prick.

he's an arsehole basically

Lucky escape but what a prize tosser

Ugh, that's awful

Don't worry OP! Some of the POF users are proper odd! But not all of them. Personally if I was to start dating again, I would use a paid service as i do think it whittles out some (not all!) of the weirdos!

Don't take this as a reflection of you! Have a glass of wine and watch a movie

Oh no! Poor you. Sounds like it was a bullet dodged to be fair.

I've thrown up in my mouth just reading that. Wanker.

Omg wanker

Lucky escape
I'm sorry you were treated this way though.

I'd say that this is not all that's left but it might take a few trials to get someone who's not just after sex

Wow!!! Thank goodness you didnt waste an evening with this idiot. He sounds a complete loser.

Sorry - WTF??? Wonder why he's single???

Lucky escape!

Lucky escape . Sounds like a prize wanker.

I'm so glad you didn't go!!

What a knob

X

Sounds like a prize wanker.. LOL

What an absolute shite! Dodged a bullet there OP.

What an idiot.

Thank your lucky stars you didn't go out with him

The thing is, even if you were on the Pill and even if you had decided before meeting him that you wanted sex with him, you'd be crazy to have sex with him without a condom and he'd be crazy to want to.

I've given up and decided to stay single. Don't go on pof all I've heard is its about a quick hook up and shag. Lucky escape.

Is this all there is left.

No certainly not. They're not all just after one thing.
He was just hoping for quick shag which, yes is, absolutely fine, if it works for both parties.
Better that you found out he was a prick now, than. When you were married with children to me.
You dodged a bullet. I'd say.

That's disgusting. Count your lucky stars he revealed his true colours before you had to spend any time with him.

Grim.
Just think of the diseases he was harbouring!

Time to change, that's exactly my thinking!!!! I also found it quite old fashioned I mean there are all manner of contraception choices ... Why the pill?

Thank goodness he sent it before and didn't ask once we were out !!!

Deleting POF methinks

Jesus! At least he revealed his twatishness to you before you actually met him I can imagine you're pretty gutted if it's your first date in a long time. Don't let him make you feel bad! I found online dating a long, hard slog but I did eventually meet someone wonderful. He was definitely worth dealing with all the ghostings and strange pervy requests and cock pictures I had along the way

Eww! What a disgusting wanker.

So he was willing to have sex with an internet stranger without a condom?

Lucky escape, OP.