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To keep a gift from a person harassing me and then ignore them?

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Yumdoritos · 11/12/2016 05:22

I've had someone sort of harassing me online. They tell me they're in love with me despite me barely having spoken to them and never hinted at anything more than friends, we are barely even friends but more than acquaintances. I have never met this person in real life.

After a few months of being harassed and being too polite to block them (but being strict and making clear how I felt to them - which was nothing!) they recently sent me a "present" to a post office near ish to me for me to pick up. I was very dubious and took a friend with me to collect it. The post office is 30 mins away and the sender does not know my address, only the town I live in.

The present that they sent me was an expensive item, aswell as an Amazon gift card for quite a large amount. I can only assume they sent it to try and win me over or something? They later asked if I'd received it and I said yes but then they didn't even mention it again and we barely spoke since.

AIBU or can I get in trouble if I keep this present and then block the person? They do not have my address but know my name. There are lots more details of how they've harassed me or been creepy online but they might be too identifying to post. I want to block them as I should have done months ago, but worried I can get in trouble somehow from doing that. The person is also quite well off so I highly doubt that the stuff he sent me is stolen or anything along those lines. I think he was just desperate but he's done too much weird stuff to me for me to feel bad for him at this point

OP posts:
AliceInUnderpants · 12/12/2016 13:20

So OP what are you going to do with the ring and gift card?

Gazelda · 12/12/2016 13:35

Is the games group moderated? Is there anyone you could ask to contact him to arrange fro the return of his 'gifts'? Also, I'm sure the wider gaming community would appreciate a heads up that this person has history for stalking and sending inappropriate pics.
In fact, if I were you I'd be back in touch with the police about the pics - surely they should be following that up? What if you weren't who you say you are and are, in fact, a 12 yo vulnerable child?

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