To cut my husband's ****edited by MNHQ**** with blunt scissors?

[Pinkbabe1]

So my husband works shifts and this week it is his early shift - he is gone from the house by 5am. I came down this morning to find he had left his iPhone on the worktop. As I was making breakfast for DC's I pressed the home button on his phone to check the time and saw an unread message from my best friend of 27 years saying "is she in bed yet?".

Now, it's my birthday next week so I thought they were arranging some special surprise for me. So left it as that. Dropped the kids off at school but something was niggling at me, I just had this feeling in my gut. His iPhone has got a passcode which I don't know. On my third attempt, by pure and utter luck, I managed to guess it right and get into his phone. What I have seen has made me sick to my stomach. My "friend" has been sending my husband dirty naked pics of herself - full on legs spread and sex toys involved. There are no replies or conversation from him but then I guess these can be deleted??? I noticed he's saved the pictures to his camera roll also - presumably for quick access. I have no idea if they have met - I can't think straight at the moment it feels like everything is in slow motion

My husband NEVER leaves his phone at home so I suspect this was a mistake. I've currently packed all his bags and I am just about to post the pictures of my "friend" on Facebook with a tag saying "you are welcome to him"

I don't know what to do

What I'd advocate is if you want to say anything (email, text or whatever) try to save it as a draft but do not send it. You can write/say etc an awful lot of things when the red mist descends.

you can then delete it later.

definitely no to FB messages. I did this during a bullying phase at work a few years ago and it could have landed me in hot water legally.

good luck and take care

She's not posting them online!!

Jeez people!

Penile are you enjoying kicking the OP when they're down. They've just found pictures of their best friend on their husband's phone. I'm sure a lot of the original post was typed in anger.
So how about instead of trawling through the thread and copying and pasting what the minority have said woth sanctimonious little comments you post constructively?

It doesn't matter whether they have met or not, he has accepted the pics and communicated with her and even if she's the one who initiated the whole thing, that's still a breach of trust.

Good luck with the confrontation OP

Make sure you tell her OH quickly too before she gets a chance to try and spin a tale

There is always one person on a thread that has to act and speak like an utter c**t.
Go away Implant.
You clearly have nothing worth while to say so your input isn't needed
It's people like you that make me wonder how or why people even post on this site for advice or support because I wouldn't have the balls due to the few or one person that has to shit pick.

Penile you are talking a load of bollocks. We've established that the OP isn't going to put anything on FB.

OP what an utter pair of cunts. She will get her comeuppance in the end. I bet she's properly shitting it now not knowing what you're going to do.

I made much the same comment as 90% of the other posters in the thread but as mitzy can't read and several other posters can't be arsed to look something else up before piling on, you're right I probably should go. Good luck with it all op, I look forward to seeing it all on Jeremy Kyle

Please keep us updated OP. And stay strong.

What a horrid shock for you.

I'm glad you've decided against posting the pics anywhere, it would get you into a lot of trouble.

I'd be asking him to leave no matter what he says right now. Even if he proves that it was all her, he hid it from you. He should have told you and told her that he had!

I'm so sorry OP, what a pair of cunts. Good luck

Cross post with Op's last post and see you're not posting them. Great!

I'm so sorry OP. Can't imagine what a body blow discovering this must have been. Hold on to your rage, it will help you power through in the initial hours and days.

'I look forward to seeing it all on Jeremy Kyle'

Shove off vinegar tits.

How awful.
Stay strong OP you're better than they are

Wishing you luck op rip him a new one.

I'd censor out the naked bits and post it on Facebook too

Ignore fly OP!
In this situation there is no way he can explain himself out of it, if he was uncomfortable and no affair had taken place the minute she sent pictures he should of told you.

Holy mother of pearl.... how horrible OP.

Good luck xx

Oh good luck OP. Pair of bastards.

Pinkbabe1 I'm so sorry. What a horrible shock. I really hope you have strong support.

KungFu, Fly was quoting a previous vile poster, she was not being harsh.

That is awful. I hope he has the sense (and decency) to take his stuff and go somewhere else. Glad you have taken copies and are going to sort this out legally. As tempting as it would be to post the pictures, doing 2 years in jail is not going to make you feel like you got your revenge. I hope her husband handles the news ok too. Big hugs. Similar happened to me and it was horrific. I decided to take the moral high ground and it was hard at times (and my friends thought I was mad). I am glad I did though as I can still hold my head up and think of myself as the better person as I didn't sink to their level - I had to tell her husband as well. I gave her the chance and she declined to do so even though she left him - saying she might watnt to go back at some point and wanted the door left open!!!