To cut my husband's ****edited by MNHQ**** with blunt scissors?

[Pinkbabe1]

So my husband works shifts and this week it is his early shift - he is gone from the house by 5am. I came down this morning to find he had left his iPhone on the worktop. As I was making breakfast for DC's I pressed the home button on his phone to check the time and saw an unread message from my best friend of 27 years saying "is she in bed yet?".

Now, it's my birthday next week so I thought they were arranging some special surprise for me. So left it as that. Dropped the kids off at school but something was niggling at me, I just had this feeling in my gut. His iPhone has got a passcode which I don't know. On my third attempt, by pure and utter luck, I managed to guess it right and get into his phone. What I have seen has made me sick to my stomach. My "friend" has been sending my husband dirty naked pics of herself - full on legs spread and sex toys involved. There are no replies or conversation from him but then I guess these can be deleted??? I noticed he's saved the pictures to his camera roll also - presumably for quick access. I have no idea if they have met - I can't think straight at the moment it feels like everything is in slow motion

My husband NEVER leaves his phone at home so I suspect this was a mistake. I've currently packed all his bags and I am just about to post the pictures of my "friend" on Facebook with a tag saying "you are welcome to him"

I don't know what to do

Hermione makes a good point about passwords, change all them even if you don't think he knows them! Including any social media passwords!

OP this is awful!! But please, please, please do not post those pictures on any social network or porn sites even though it is the best idea but there are so many people out there that have done this and ended up going to jail for "revenge porn" she is not worth that sentence!!

Good on you for sending the pictures back too her from your phone though, that lets her no that you have seen the pictures & she needs to be on her guard. I would also be contact the skanks husband and explaining what you have found & probably sending them too him^ he has a right to see what a slapper his "darling wife" is.
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As for you personally, I would kick the fucker out!!
I highly doubt that she has just woken up one day and decided to send him nudes without something being said/done it takes two too tango.

One last thing Penile, if you think the OP is making this up, you should really report it to HQ rather than making 'if this is real' style comments.

HTH

Odfo penile. Where do you get off making digs at a woman who's whole life has just crashed down? Get a hobby.

Op I said this
*Revenge porn is illegal for a reason, there is a case at the moment. The woman just killed herself.

I appreciate the op is angry (if this is real) but the rest of you advocating it have got nothing to do with it so please stop advocating abusing women.*

If you think the post was abusive feel free to report it

This is disgusting,I'm so sorry this happened to you Op.What a disgusting couple of people..they deserve each other.

Do you know what Penile - I'm really not bothered about keyboard warriors at the moment. Thankyou to all who have talked sense in to me. I'm sat waiting for his car

OP IS NOT POSTING ANYTHING ON ANY SOCIAL MEDIA SITES

So let's stop focusing on that and focus on supporting poor op.

I think I'd forward the pictures to her husband saying 'any idea why these are in my husbands phone?' But absolutely do not post them publicly. Don't let yourself get into trouble when you've done nothing wrong.

I'm so sorry this is happening to You op, I don't have any advice other than do not post the pics online.

Stay strong

I was in a similar situation to this a few years ago OP (not with a husband and we were not together for anywhere near as long) - anyway I messaged her back and then I messaged her bf. Perhaps not taking the moral high ground but fuck it I felt better. Try and keep it off fb though - only to save yourself the humiliation of everyone talking about you. Best of luck love x

Not making a dig, I responded to the comment that I was being abusive. Feel free to report if you think I have been abusive

It's not just about the legality of posting the pictures online. This woman is pretty morally bankrupt yes- but her husband and especially her five children have nothing to do with this. Why on earth hurt them and humiliate by posting pornographic pictures of their mother online. And if you have children, do you really want this betrayal to impact on them - don't you think they will be hurt and humiliated if you go down this route.

I can't imagine how angry you are but you need to protect yourself and your kids (if you have any).

Just look at what Katie Price did and do the opposite

But god what a pair of twats

Implant it really isn't the time to be a dick to the OP, I expect the children didn't even register until much later. She also hasn't said that she will post them, just that she'd like to.

But hey, if it makes you feel better that's all that matters right.

pink have you got any children? If so, is there any family that would have them tonight so you can have some time to take everything in?

Go away Penile what on earth is your point? If you have nothing constructive to add then just leave the thread.

Op, I would also hang on to his phone for now. I'm so sorry this is happening.

There are no winners in this sordid tale. Look after yourself

OP you must get copies of everything in case you need it as evidence so it can't be denied. I'm sorry this has happened to you.

You're showing amazing strength, OP. I'm so sorry this has happened to you.

I agree with the others. Don't think of revenge - focus on getting what you want out of this.

Fuck, I'm so sorry OP :( hugs.