To cut my husband's ****edited by MNHQ**** with blunt scissors?

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So my husband works shifts and this week it is his early shift - he is gone from the house by 5am. I came down this morning to find he had left his iPhone on the worktop. As I was making breakfast for DC's I pressed the home button on his phone to check the time and saw an unread message from my best friend of 27 years saying "is she in bed yet?".

Now, it's my birthday next week so I thought they were arranging some special surprise for me. So left it as that. Dropped the kids off at school but something was niggling at me, I just had this feeling in my gut. His iPhone has got a passcode which I don't know. On my third attempt, by pure and utter luck, I managed to guess it right and get into his phone. What I have seen has made me sick to my stomach. My "friend" has been sending my husband dirty naked pics of herself - full on legs spread and sex toys involved. There are no replies or conversation from him but then I guess these can be deleted??? I noticed he's saved the pictures to his camera roll also - presumably for quick access. I have no idea if they have met - I can't think straight at the moment it feels like everything is in slow motion

My husband NEVER leaves his phone at home so I suspect this was a mistake. I've currently packed all his bags and I am just about to post the pictures of my "friend" on Facebook with a tag saying "you are welcome to him"

I don't know what to do

I think fly was actually quoting another very unhelpful poster KungFu.

I've reported penile. Op does not need to read that right now. Maybe she's the ow?

You could message her and him and tell her they've been posted to every porn site you could find along with her phone no and address. Don't do it for real though. That should shit her up. And I reckon that'd feel pretty good

Op you are being so strong right now.

Sorry Penile is being such a twat on this thread. Just ignore and rise above.

I really hope the confrontation isn't too awful. Keep that strength and be the better person. You deserve better than this.

Oops! Sorry fly

Ignore fly OP!

My quote didn't bold, it wasn't me that said that horrible comment. I've reported my post

I find it hilarious that everyone is telling her not to post on Facebook but no one has told her not to cut his penis off. obviously both were said in the same 'I want revenge but I don't know what to do manner'.

Be calm when you confront him.

Xpost. No worries KungFu

Good luck op it's such a load of shit.

Blimey op I wouldn't blame u

Well it has gone two so she's probably in full chopping mode as I type.
Hope you're ok OP

Bloody hell op, what a horrible horrible shock

Oh op, I'm so sorry. What a pair of wankers! X

Oh OP I'm so sorry this is happening to you. My dad cheated on my mum during their entire 30 year marriage, I've seen the damage it does. In fact, he spent ten years shagging his best mate's wife, it caused utter devastation when it all came out.
Remember that you are worth more and that you deserve so much better. Sending lots of love.

Is there any possibility at all that the pictures were unsolicited? Just seems weird that there are no replies. Would seem pretty pointless to delete his replies but leave up all the pictures.

Could it be some sort of unrequited stalking on her part maybe? I'm clutching at straws I know.

What a couple of wankers, so sorry OP I would be round her house letting rip

Bill he did reply

So sorry this is happening OP What an utter pair of oxygen theives.

To all the posters saying it's strange that he deleted his replies but kept the photos, it really really isn't to me. I imagine he wanted to keep them for wank fodder.

What utter cunts op. I'm so sorry.

sorry this happened to you op

Well she's replied to my phone saying "where did you get those" and he's still not home yet. He's never this late back so I have a sneaky suspicion she's got hold of him some how

I hope you're OK, OP.

God, what a shock for you. Hope you managed to remain calmish when he got home, I guess your children will be home soon too. I would make your husband explain to them what's going on if you can.