To cut my husband's ****edited by MNHQ**** with blunt scissors?

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So my husband works shifts and this week it is his early shift - he is gone from the house by 5am. I came down this morning to find he had left his iPhone on the worktop. As I was making breakfast for DC's I pressed the home button on his phone to check the time and saw an unread message from my best friend of 27 years saying "is she in bed yet?".

Now, it's my birthday next week so I thought they were arranging some special surprise for me. So left it as that. Dropped the kids off at school but something was niggling at me, I just had this feeling in my gut. His iPhone has got a passcode which I don't know. On my third attempt, by pure and utter luck, I managed to guess it right and get into his phone. What I have seen has made me sick to my stomach. My "friend" has been sending my husband dirty naked pics of herself - full on legs spread and sex toys involved. There are no replies or conversation from him but then I guess these can be deleted??? I noticed he's saved the pictures to his camera roll also - presumably for quick access. I have no idea if they have met - I can't think straight at the moment it feels like everything is in slow motion

My husband NEVER leaves his phone at home so I suspect this was a mistake. I've currently packed all his bags and I am just about to post the pictures of my "friend" on Facebook with a tag saying "you are welcome to him"

I don't know what to do

Depending on how your feeling op, seeing as it's getting late I would be locking the door for the night and leave the key in. the fact he's not even bothered to contact you at all, he deserves sleep out in the cold imo

She's trying to turn it around saying your boring. She in fact has no morals, she must be sick in the head. Do not even reply to her. She will feel of wanted all this drama. She reminds me of my sister. We don't talk haven't for years but same characteristics. Always wanted to prove a point, always sleeping with people's husbands etc, she's a sad haggered old bint, so insecure she has to do awful things to make herself feel some worth. You are worth so much more than this, I'm just sorry your husband was lured into this. It sounds like she knew exactly what she was doing. Absolutely sickening

Are the kids coming back tonight?

Wow she is truly, truly horrible. Is there anyone IRL who can be with you and support you through this?
Do not be insulted by her- she's probably lashing out because she's been backed into a corner.
One day maybe she'll realise what she's thrown away.

*will of wanted all this drama

What a cold bitch she is

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I wish I could say something helpful

I can't believe she replied saying that!! What a disgusting human being she actually is
Not even a "I'm sorry" utterly vile. She's acting as if she has done absolutely nothing wrong

Jesus. I take it DH isn't home yet neither?
I really fucking hope for your sake he shows his face soon so you can get the excuses answers you need to kick the horrible twat out on his arse!!
At this point he's just showing how guilty he actually is in all of this. If it was anything innocent he'd of been home at 2 o'clock begging for forgiveness.

Thinking of you OP!!

What furry said. Cold. Cold. Cold.

I can't imagine the shock you must be feeling right now. Your ex-friend needs therapy - in what world would this behaviour ever be deemed acceptable?!

God this is such an awful situation :(

I really feel for you

Fucking he'll what a nasty cow!

Be glad she's out of your life.

So sorry OP. This woman sounds appalling, I hope your husband is home soon- he needs to face up to his actions. x

Hell not he'll.

My ex best friend slept with my now ex dh. When I confronted her she just said Ahh well it's done now. So I know exactly how you feel about not knowing her anymore. I wouldn't of ever imagined it.

Just to reiterate what previous posters have said: NONE OF THIS IS DOWN TO YOU. So don't be shy about telling people the real reasons why he's no longer welcome in your home. Your family need to know so they can support you. It's not up to you to protect him. Keep your head held high. Also I want to say that, this will feel like a bereavement to you. Seek support from your family if you can.

Wow. How pathetic. The photos and her attitude.

Gosh what a chilly response. She truly is a piece of work isn't she?
I am so sorry.

So sorry OP. Hope you're ok?

Oh she is awful. I cannot believe your husband hasn't had the balls to face you to be honest. Have you any idea where he would have gone?

I'm so sorry. In your position I'd ask her if it was physical and how long it had been going on for. I wouldn't be able to leave it. After you get your answers tell her what a nasty, evil bitch she is and warn all of your mutual married aquintences.

I can't believe that spineless coward still hasn't come home!

As for her, what a waste of space.