To cut my husband's ****edited by MNHQ**** with blunt scissors?

[Pinkbabe1]

So my husband works shifts and this week it is his early shift - he is gone from the house by 5am. I came down this morning to find he had left his iPhone on the worktop. As I was making breakfast for DC's I pressed the home button on his phone to check the time and saw an unread message from my best friend of 27 years saying "is she in bed yet?".

Now, it's my birthday next week so I thought they were arranging some special surprise for me. So left it as that. Dropped the kids off at school but something was niggling at me, I just had this feeling in my gut. His iPhone has got a passcode which I don't know. On my third attempt, by pure and utter luck, I managed to guess it right and get into his phone. What I have seen has made me sick to my stomach. My "friend" has been sending my husband dirty naked pics of herself - full on legs spread and sex toys involved. There are no replies or conversation from him but then I guess these can be deleted??? I noticed he's saved the pictures to his camera roll also - presumably for quick access. I have no idea if they have met - I can't think straight at the moment it feels like everything is in slow motion

My husband NEVER leaves his phone at home so I suspect this was a mistake. I've currently packed all his bags and I am just about to post the pictures of my "friend" on Facebook with a tag saying "you are welcome to him"

I don't know what to do

Thanks Writerwannabe83 - that makes sense, i was being dim

So sorry OP, you are right to have nothing more to do with this nasty person. What a hideous response, hurtful and insulting, with no hint of remorse whatsoever. And your H is a weak and stupid fool. And he's disloyal to say the least. But she has used him. And he has allowed it and enjoyed it.

Can't believe he's such a coward. Still not home to face you.

Stay strong and make sure none of these bullies get to you.

Exfriend is some bloody piece of work. Have you told her husband yet?

Pink - that's just awful. She is beneath contempt. You are so right to never communicate with her again. I hope you get some answers from him soon. I really feel for you. I will echo what a pp said - give one of those acquaintances you mentioned earlier a call. They may not be mates now, but if someone I knew only as an acquaintance called me and needed a hand hold through this I would be there.

I know it's no comfort but it's better now that you know what kind of person she is. She was never your friend.

She is obviously deeply jealous of your relastionship - that's why she put herself in it.

God so sorry, she sounds like a complete bitch.
Has your not so 'd' h got Facebook?? Could you contact him through that?
Did you say anything to mil?

How awful for you

It's very inconsiderate for your (D)H to be so late home with no word, on top of everything else! Are you concerned for his welfare? Does he have a car? You could report him missing (and cut off his penis with blunt scissors when you find him)

Has he got back yet?

I would try and contact her DH again if you can. Seems poss she replied from his Facebook saying he already knew.

OP she is obviously so jealous of your life, your relationship, your home life, otherwise why on earth would she try and sabotage it.
Both of the deserve what they get here. Hold your head up high and try and be strong if only for your DCs. They will get what's coming to them. It's weird her H is happy for this to go on under his nose, she is ruining marriages/families doing what she's doing. How on earth can she get away with this. I hope you get to have it out with him and find out what you need to know to move on

She clearly does t think your life is that boring, especially if she's so willingly weaselled her way into it.

She's jealous of you. No more, no less! How sad!!!

*doesn't - sorry!

I agree she's jealous. Her comment sounds bitter.

Plus she's embarrassed as hell, you have pictures of her naked. She's just trying to take a bit of power back, and failing I hope!

Oh pink what a vile woman. You must be feeling loss all round.

I'm so so sorry.

I would be on another level of rage right now.

Him not coming home and leaving you to stew is unforgivable.

OP you are incredible. The way you're handling this, with such dignity and calm, is absolutely amazing.

You're a million times the woman that she will EVER be.

As for your shithouse 'husband'...I have no words!

I'm so sorry she was so utterly horrible and contemptuous in her response to you. Hopefully you get some answer from him soon. Thinking of you OP.

That's some reply from your 'friend', you're right you don't know her at all she's hid her true self very deep.

I can't believe she hasn't even apologised!

You are so well shot of that absolute bitch of a woman!! Your far more restrained than I would be OP, I'm sure I would be round her door then telling all and sundry what she does to married men!!

You deserve better than the tosser of a H you have, not only is your life ripped apart, he hasn't even the decency to face you but is now allowing you to worry over his welfare!! I'd cut it off for you OP if I knew where he was!!!

I agree she's trying to take the power back.

Wow you poor love, what a fucking vile excuse for a human being she is

I think you are handling this really well Pinkbabe1. I hope he comes home soon and you can have it out with him, I think your right, he's hiding. I wonder does he know he's ruined his family over a woman that sends her nude pictures to other married men, maybe friends of yours as well, who knows. It's very sad for you to be totally betrayed by people you love. (I really could punch the two of em, for you, and I don't even know you).,Christ, I can't believe how f***g cruel some people can be. Why in the hell didn't he show the pictures to you and stop her little game. He will probably be sitting somewhere trying to figure out wtf he's going to try to tell you. I will be thinking of you. Stay strong.

OP - iPhones can be bricked remotely so make sure you get whatever evidence you need off it asap, just in case.

Pink what a horrific day you are having. I can't believe the so called friend is so brazen in her replies to you. Obviously your dp is running scared.