To cut my husband's ****edited by MNHQ**** with blunt scissors?

[Pinkbabe1]

So my husband works shifts and this week it is his early shift - he is gone from the house by 5am. I came down this morning to find he had left his iPhone on the worktop. As I was making breakfast for DC's I pressed the home button on his phone to check the time and saw an unread message from my best friend of 27 years saying "is she in bed yet?".

Now, it's my birthday next week so I thought they were arranging some special surprise for me. So left it as that. Dropped the kids off at school but something was niggling at me, I just had this feeling in my gut. His iPhone has got a passcode which I don't know. On my third attempt, by pure and utter luck, I managed to guess it right and get into his phone. What I have seen has made me sick to my stomach. My "friend" has been sending my husband dirty naked pics of herself - full on legs spread and sex toys involved. There are no replies or conversation from him but then I guess these can be deleted??? I noticed he's saved the pictures to his camera roll also - presumably for quick access. I have no idea if they have met - I can't think straight at the moment it feels like everything is in slow motion

My husband NEVER leaves his phone at home so I suspect this was a mistake. I've currently packed all his bags and I am just about to post the pictures of my "friend" on Facebook with a tag saying "you are welcome to him"

I don't know what to do

You not away yet ayeok.

I was quoting another poster who called me and others "outraged harpies" and giving them a winning smile.

I've apologised to the OP for helping to derail the thread, because I shouldn't have derailed it and I was wrong to do so. So no, not away, but also no longer engaging with derailing arguments.

this sort of thing happens on NSA sites, the women has explicit pictures as profile pictures, men who respond to the profile find that they are a couple looking for a man to have sex with the woman while her partner or husband watches.
Or this couple may be into MMF 3somes

GipsyDanger

Not sure who gipsy thinks they are but I suggest they look up the word deplorable.

ODFO gipsy.

I think I "are" a women who's trying to help op, what exactly are you doing?

I also advised the OP to start a thread over in relationships as she will get a lot of support over there, also for the long term should she need it.

OP, maybe it would be a better idea to start a new thread. You need support, not arguments (again, I'm really sorry). Hope you find out where he is soon and can have it out with him.

In fact I'd be interested in knowing which of my posts are deplorable. Feel free to PM me with them if you don't want to post them here. Would really like to know which ones you consider deplorable though.

That was to the so helpful gipsy.

Oh my goodness.
I am so so so sorry you are going through this OP.

I can't believe how calm you are and how much you have achieved already today.

As for him and where he is. Who cares. Id be telling his parents what he's been doing and that he is avoiding U!

Good luck and hope you get to have it out with him before bed time.

At this point I'd be packing his stuff, dumping it on the doorstep and dead locking the door.

Cowardly man.

It's worse than a playground on here sometimes

Thinking of you OP

Op start a new thread if you want some more support.. hopefully everyone arguing like children will stay here and do it

I'd get mnhq to move the thread to relationships as its derailed here...

Going back to the thread, if it stays here, I wouldn't trust your D H or the friend OW that this is just sharing photos. My ex said he'd only had an emotional affair when I first found out, turned out they'd been together well before. Likewise one of my friends found deleted photos and it had been physical before.

Trust your family and friends that truly support you.

Agree with dolores. Stop arguing and derailing the thread. This is not helpful to the op. You just sound like a bunch of spiteful keyboard warriors now.

Op I'm thinking about you-I can't imagine what you're going through.

You know what? I'm not sorry. I stand by what I said, 100%. As for it making me as bad as the OW? Get a grip fgs. I'd say that's actually everyone jumping to the defence of OW and her obviously greedy genitalia. Boop out!

Just a thought - go thought the contacts on his phone - if he does have another phone he may have stored the number?