To cut my husband's ****edited by MNHQ**** with blunt scissors?

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So my husband works shifts and this week it is his early shift - he is gone from the house by 5am. I came down this morning to find he had left his iPhone on the worktop. As I was making breakfast for DC's I pressed the home button on his phone to check the time and saw an unread message from my best friend of 27 years saying "is she in bed yet?".

Now, it's my birthday next week so I thought they were arranging some special surprise for me. So left it as that. Dropped the kids off at school but something was niggling at me, I just had this feeling in my gut. His iPhone has got a passcode which I don't know. On my third attempt, by pure and utter luck, I managed to guess it right and get into his phone. What I have seen has made me sick to my stomach. My "friend" has been sending my husband dirty naked pics of herself - full on legs spread and sex toys involved. There are no replies or conversation from him but then I guess these can be deleted??? I noticed he's saved the pictures to his camera roll also - presumably for quick access. I have no idea if they have met - I can't think straight at the moment it feels like everything is in slow motion

My husband NEVER leaves his phone at home so I suspect this was a mistake. I've currently packed all his bags and I am just about to post the pictures of my "friend" on Facebook with a tag saying "you are welcome to him"

I don't know what to do

Have to disagree with jenlindley** on this one. I'd say no woman in their right mind would send naked pictures to a best friends husband full stop. I had a close friend who would constantly try to get close to my husband but saw it as a deliberate attempt to upset me. If it hadn't have been my husband it would have been someone else I was close to. Safe to say we are no longer friends. That being said OP's husband should have told OP if he was utterly blameless....

Stay strong op

when my "friend" went after my husband, her husband knew but hadn't said anything till I spoke to him - he felt ashamed

I found her betrayal worse than the infidelity

Hope you get some proper answers Pink

I wonder if he's come home as OP has been gone a while...... I hope you're OK OP.

Biting my nails waiting for a response from OP. So hope you're ok.

Have to disagree with jenlindley on this one. I'd say no woman in their right mind would send naked pictures to a best friends husband full stop.

Not sure what part of my post you think you're disagreeing with

Horrible. Don't do anything rash.

Hope you're ok OP. Can't believe you're going through this. Your husband is a prick for not telling you your best friend was sending him nudes. As for her husband he's a coward and prick too. Surely you'd want to get your children away from this woman? Karma is a bitch and I hope she gets what coming. Id leave your husbands stuff outside and change the locks. I wouldn't waste any time on him as I can't imagine he's going to be honest at all.

How the fuck is her husband a prick?!

He's been played for a cunt too but coz he has a dick it's all his fault.

There's two pricks in the story.

Just saw about the DH of the woman. I know he's suffering as she's being a bitch to him but am I the only one who thinks its up to him to turn a blind eye but he's a bit of a twat for not informing OP and letting her decide what to do about it? Or am I too harsh?

She's just been looking for attention like this all over the place! Not that that gives you any answers as to how far down the list of men your CH came (yup, he is now cunting husband). If he wasn't first then it's likely she started it (although that still may not be the case).

I wonder if any other men are people she knows irl or other people's partners

Two cunts, also Derek!

DerekSprechenZeDick His wives best friend sent him nudes, to which he replied too. I think that makes him prick. He could have ignored it and told his wife what was going on.

Well I agree with what Jen said.

Really hoping you are ok OP?

The other husband is probably doing what he can not to fall apart for the sake of his 5DC! He isn't responsible for what his wife does.

Bold fail but yes, calling your husband CH from now on not DH.

And she needs a code too because she's clearly not a friend to behave like this

Oh God, you poor thing. I've known my BF for nearly 30 years and the thought of her doing something like this makes me feel sick.
And what a spineless prick your 'D'P is. We're all rooting for you

jenlindley saying that there would have been initial flirting leading up to this. We don't know anything about the husband - just that the crazy friend likes sending naked pictures of herself. Just saying that it could be more innocent from the husbands side. She might just be a jealous of OP and want to get one up over her.

No. How is the Vagina Judas' husband a prick?!

He isn't to blame for the affair (friends DH) but he has kept the secret and it's about his choice. He can ignore if he likes but taking OPs choice away?

Think about all the posts about informing the OWs partner and 85% of people say you should as it's cruel not to - same thing.

I'm gutted for him as he's obviously in an abusive relationship with a manipulative woman.

summer I think derek was replying to this bit As for her husband he's a coward and prick too in your post about the "friends" husband.
He isn't a prick. He's been played too as derek said.

Derek, if her husband knew his wife was doing this with the op's husband, he had a duty to tell her. It makes him somewhat culpable in the situation, even if he was just trying to spare the children (doing the wrong things for the right reasons have their own consequences unfortunately).

Doesn't make him a prick though. Makes him someone who is trying to deal with been in a shitty marriage.