To cut my husband's ****edited by MNHQ**** with blunt scissors?

[Pinkbabe1]

So my husband works shifts and this week it is his early shift - he is gone from the house by 5am. I came down this morning to find he had left his iPhone on the worktop. As I was making breakfast for DC's I pressed the home button on his phone to check the time and saw an unread message from my best friend of 27 years saying "is she in bed yet?".

Now, it's my birthday next week so I thought they were arranging some special surprise for me. So left it as that. Dropped the kids off at school but something was niggling at me, I just had this feeling in my gut. His iPhone has got a passcode which I don't know. On my third attempt, by pure and utter luck, I managed to guess it right and get into his phone. What I have seen has made me sick to my stomach. My "friend" has been sending my husband dirty naked pics of herself - full on legs spread and sex toys involved. There are no replies or conversation from him but then I guess these can be deleted??? I noticed he's saved the pictures to his camera roll also - presumably for quick access. I have no idea if they have met - I can't think straight at the moment it feels like everything is in slow motion

My husband NEVER leaves his phone at home so I suspect this was a mistake. I've currently packed all his bags and I am just about to post the pictures of my "friend" on Facebook with a tag saying "you are welcome to him"

I don't know what to do

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OP the same happened to me, BF of 25 years and and my "d"P. Nicely of them the moved in together and bought a house a street away from me. The utter utter bastards

Playing devil's advocate....

if there were no replies from him on his phone, is it possible he never replied? Maybe he was very flattered by the attention and held onto the pics, but never responded much? I'm not defending him but I think you should wait and see what he has to say and stop alerting the other DH whose loyalty may be with his wife- and that may work against you.

She'S stated that her husband is no rocket scientist...

Polly he did reply

Polly, OP did more digging and did find replies.

Won't the kids be in from school/need picking up any minute?

I thought all messages from the OPs DH (on his phone) weren't there? She said she couldn't see any replies ( right at the start of this thread.)

There was a reply to one picture saying they should stop but she's putting it on a plate

Dolores There are no replies or conversation from him but then I guess these can be deleted???

It wouldn't have mattered if he hadn't replied - any decent partner would be disgusted and tell their wife/husband if their best mate started sending vile pics of their nasty old chuff.

There were also emails Polly.

How bloody dreadful!

He did reply Polly

Maybe if it is just on the fb, she's saying she did it to multiple men to minimise, like she wasn't trying to shag him, it's just something she does

I'd have to ring her, not suggesting that's what you should do, but I would.

Jesus with friends like that who needs enemies! Hope you're holding up ok op

OP - please make sure you get copies of everything you've seen plus banking, cc statements, birth/wedding/home certificates, etc and keep them at a friend's place.

Hope he comes back soon so you can confront him. Sorry you are going through this. It must be such a shock.

Horrible situation, what a coward he is being ! Sorry OP

Oh my word, what an awful shock, we're here for you OP

Btw - cheese grater is probably more satisfying than the nail scissors!

He did reply.

Op I guess he is thinking up a story for you...

Thinking of you OP, you have done absolutely nothing wrong here. She sounds like an utter dog, karma will catch up with both of them.

Sending lots of love.

So sorry op. She's clearly tipped him off at work somehow and the spineless arsehole hasn't dared come home.