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To cut my husband's ****edited by MNHQ**** with blunt scissors?

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Pinkbabe1 · 28/09/2016 13:11

So my husband works shifts and this week it is his early shift - he is gone from the house by 5am. I came down this morning to find he had left his iPhone on the worktop. As I was making breakfast for DC's I pressed the home button on his phone to check the time and saw an unread message from my best friend of 27 years saying "is she in bed yet?".

Now, it's my birthday next week so I thought they were arranging some special surprise for me. So left it as that. Dropped the kids off at school but something was niggling at me, I just had this feeling in my gut. His iPhone has got a passcode which I don't know. On my third attempt, by pure and utter luck, I managed to guess it right and get into his phone. What I have seen has made me sick to my stomach. My "friend" has been sending my husband dirty naked pics of herself - full on legs spread and sex toys involved. There are no replies or conversation from him but then I guess these can be deleted??? I noticed he's saved the pictures to his camera roll also - presumably for quick access. I have no idea if they have met - I can't think straight at the moment it feels like everything is in slow motion

My husband NEVER leaves his phone at home so I suspect this was a mistake. I've currently packed all his bags and I am just about to post the pictures of my "friend" on Facebook with a tag saying "you are welcome to him"

I don't know what to do

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SlimbobJones · 28/09/2016 14:31

If you've got any blunt razors around that would be my choice.. or rusty teaspoons...

AppleJac · 28/09/2016 14:31

I can totally understand why you would want to post them online. I would of probably done it in anger without thinking straight.

Do tell her husband as he deserves to know

MollyHopps · 28/09/2016 14:31

Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks

Stay strong OP.

Imavinoops · 28/09/2016 14:31

How terrible OP! I'm so so sorry to hear what has happened.

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redisthenewblack · 28/09/2016 14:31

She's had the fucking barefaced cheek to ask where you got them?!?! I'm livid on your behalf OP.

allsfairinlove · 28/09/2016 14:31

"where did you get those"

What a bloody cheek.

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Pinkbabe1 · 28/09/2016 14:32

I've Facebook messaged her husband as I don't have his mobile. I've just said that I've found dirty pics of his wife I my husbands phone

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MollyHopps · 28/09/2016 14:32

Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks

Stay strong OP. And don't Reply.

HerRoyalFattyness · 28/09/2016 14:33

Cheeky bitch Shock

SarcasmMode · 28/09/2016 14:33

'I'll ask your husband'

BoopTheSnoot · 28/09/2016 14:33

A response like that makes me think that she almost wanted to get caught out in the hope that your DH might choose her over you

BastardGoDarkly · 28/09/2016 14:33

My husbands phone you unbelievable cunt! This is your bf!? You must be devastated. I'm so sorry you're going through this.

SarcasmMode · 28/09/2016 14:33

Poor guy and poor you.

Do you and DH have DC?

EddieHitler · 28/09/2016 14:34

Really sorry to hear that.

I'd use blunt rusty carpet scissors on him.

And I'd tell her that you've posted the pictures of her surprisingly ugly fanny all over the internet, with her mobile number attached. Make her feel as sick to the stomach as you do.

breakfastbap · 28/09/2016 14:34

She must be panicking like mad. Stay strong Op you are doing brilliantly so far, I'd have been like a banshee and done all the wrong things.

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IEatLemonCurdFromTheJar · 28/09/2016 14:35

Feck me! I'm just so very sorry..
As hard as it might be, try and be tactical and clever about it all.
In the long run, you'll totally be thankful you were.
Thinking of you. Flowers

DigestiveMuncher · 28/09/2016 14:35

Does H have a work phone she could of contacted him on to tell him you had seen them?
Maybe he's avoiding coming home if so.

As for her replying that what a cheeky bitch Shock
She clearly has no shame what so ever. Trollop

MollyHopps · 28/09/2016 14:35

Boop Grin

ISpeakJive · 28/09/2016 14:36

Do not reply to her OP! Let her fucking sweat her fanny off!!!!!

WigelsPigels · 28/09/2016 14:36

WineCakeFlowersChocolate
Keep strong X
I would want to cut his dick off very slowly.

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