Yes I chose to be with him whilst he's in the army, I understood I'd be looking after OUR baby solely by myself 24:7, and doing a bloody good job at it!
So what was the reason for mentioning your pain and disability? What is the justification for wanting to continue to live at your parents, if not for their practical support? 
At least admitting you need help to parent day to day and admitting that their practical support is invaluable to you would make some sense.
It makes much more sense than saying you are perfectly capable of parenting 24:7 all alone but you just can't bring yourself to cut the apron strings.
Even if your bloke were not in the army, if he's the main breadwinner then there could well be times throughout your married life no matter who he works for or what his job is, where relocation for work is a stark and necessary reality. sometimes it's another town, another country or another country or continent altogether. You sometimes have to go where the opportunities are. Where the work is. It's called being a grown up. Getting the bills paid.
Honestly, you don't seem to know what you want, other than everything your own way. Whatever that is. You are now contradicting yourself left right and centre as a way of justifying your quite weird and intransigent stance.
But I did not choose moving away from everyone I know!
Then as has been said a million times on this thread, a commitment to a man in the armed forces was not a sensible choice for you. rushing into parenthood with a man who has a career that you clearly don't support was not a good choice for you.
But it's done now. So you have a choice to make. You either grow up and act like the life partner and mother you are supposed to be, or you continue to act like a slightly spoilt and helpless child.