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To start the NINTH thread that nobody responds to

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PortiaCastis · 22/08/2016 13:33

For the lonely faces, in those empty spaces
For the unloved and the denied
For the little wheels turning bigger deals
For all the dreams that bloomed and those that died

Mother nature don't draw straight lines
We're broken moulds in a grand design
We look a mess but we're doing fine
We're card carrying lifelong members of
The Union of different kinds

All welcome we are Vanilla who makes cakes
Toad who is meme champion
Better who is advisory
Portia who has a famous boyf
AGL who is young
Jess well I dunno
Ruby Being and anyone I've forgotten

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VanillaSugar · 22/08/2016 17:30

We requested it on Thursday and they contacted her at lunchtime. We'd asked for a priority remark.

AverageGayLad · 22/08/2016 17:36

Thankyou Vanilla Flowers :)

RedOnHerHedd · 22/08/2016 17:41

Being I wouldn't turn that down if I was offered it. Obviously the dollar is worth less now, so I may have to negotiate a bit. But I wouldn't say no.

Bettercallsaul1 · 22/08/2016 17:46

Thank you, Portia! I aim to please.

Bettercallsaul1 · 22/08/2016 17:48

Is it Oxbridge she is aiming for, Vanilla? Or just a very oversubscribed course like medicine, dentistry etc?

VanillaSugar · 22/08/2016 18:20

Next tier down Better i.e. Edinburgh, that sort of place, and on a highly over subscribed course.

Mummyshortlegz · 22/08/2016 18:22

Vanilla how bloody unfair that seems Flowers

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PortiaCastis · 22/08/2016 18:24

Oh God I've got all that to face next year and dd won't speak about uni other than Exeter. !!!!

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VanillaSugar · 22/08/2016 18:27

So, imagine you'd wanted to go to Edinburgh and your second choice was Inverness. Absolutely nothing wrong with Inverness. But it's not Edinburgh. That sort of thing. Then imagine that you wanted to be a Archaeologist and didn't make the grade on ONE subject. Do you become an Archaeologist at Inverness? Or an Egyptologist at Edinburgh because the entry requirement is slightly lower for Egyptology?

And then other people are saying "Archaeology is a better subject than Egyptology" but she says "I want to go to Edinburgh!!!" And I think, actually, I wanted to go to Edinburgh too but I bummed out on my a levels and ended up in the arse end of nowhere in clearing and I've always felt sad about that.

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 22/08/2016 18:33

I went to two unis and I can honestly say I enjoyed my time at both equally. I made great friends and they are what made my uni experience amazing.

I wouldn't go for a course that she doesn't want to do. It's a lot of money to spend if it's not what she wants. Could she maybe retake the exam in January and apply again next year?

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PortiaCastis · 22/08/2016 18:34

Oh I foresee some difficult days in this house. At the moment she's in lurveee and thinks of nothing else.

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Bettercallsaul1 · 22/08/2016 18:36

Yes, I understand exactly what you mean, Vanilla.

ItShouldHaveBeenJess · 22/08/2016 18:56

Evening all. Portia. Beautiful opening lyrics, but not sure about the 'Jess - I dunno' part....

I have a lot to catch up on, I see.....

ItShouldHaveBeenJess · 22/08/2016 19:03

On the bright side, that grubby old man charming octegarian who propositioned me in the last thread, has taken to sitting on a bench outside Co Op, and this evening greeted me with the words 'I was thinking about you in bed this morning'.

So that pretty much puts the block on my early evening booze runs.

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PortiaCastis · 22/08/2016 19:04

Evening Jess well I didn't insult you 😄

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PortiaCastis · 22/08/2016 19:05

Oh it's not Jim is it?

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ItShouldHaveBeenJess · 22/08/2016 19:06

portia. That's always a bonus. Am rather vague about myself right now! Who am I? I dunno (I'm very philosophical, moi)

VanillaSugar · 22/08/2016 19:07

They don't so the January resits any more. She'd have to go back to school as a part-time student and resist the whole subject. Except.... she was at boarding school 100 miles away Confused

And then there's no guarantee that she'd bump up to an A anyway......

ConfusedHmm

And she wouldn't have a proper gap year where she can plant gardens in South America.

I've just told her that she needs to go to second choice and I think she's gone upstairs for a little 😢

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PortiaCastis · 22/08/2016 19:07

Sounds like you're as bonkers as me 😂

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Bettercallsaul1 · 22/08/2016 19:07

What she meant, Jess, is that there were so many interesting things to list about you that she didn't know where to start... Wink

ItShouldHaveBeenJess · 22/08/2016 19:07

Na, no hat and no rolliie stuck to his lip. Just a Popeye t-shirt (and obviously trousers and stuff; he's not that 'grubby)

ItShouldHaveBeenJess · 22/08/2016 19:08

Thank you, I feel better (cackle )

VanillaSugar · 22/08/2016 19:09

Jess I always find saying "Fuck off" to that sort of person quite therapeutic. But maybe, if you see him regularly, that's probably not quite a good idea.

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PortiaCastis · 22/08/2016 19:10

I was busy and was entering with one hand and trying to type with the other on the tablet

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ItShouldHaveBeenJess · 22/08/2016 19:10

Poor vanilla how stressful (am beginning to catch up). Planting gardens in South America is very over-rated.