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To love fangirling

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WoburnSands · 17/08/2016 18:57

I'm currently fangirling over a male celebrity - so am doing the usual - looking up every YouTube clip of him that's ever been recorded ... Looking up every internet nugget about him.

I was attracted to him cos of his good looks - coincidentally we appear to have had similar upbringings in SOME ways from what I've read!!

Ah there's worse ways to spend a weekday evening !!

Autocorrect at first changed 'similar' upbringings to 'solidarity' upbringings - as far as I know neither of us was brought up by a 1980s Polish political party ....

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ShelaghTurner · 18/08/2016 09:06

Agree totally with almond's description. Fangirling is not a passive activity.

PrimalLass · 18/08/2016 09:13

I love fangirling, and have met a great group of now friends through a recent obsession.

blushrush · 18/08/2016 09:22

I'm in my mid-30s and I still fangirl. I also write fanfiction when the mood takes me, enjoy fanart, look at memes, play fan games, wear fan-created clothing, play PokemonGo, and nerd out with my friends who like the same fandoms.

I also cosplay on a regular basis and attend the largest UK anime convention every year with 1,500 like-minded people. I will never be too old for something I love and enjoy doing.

ohmywhatamisaying · 18/08/2016 10:07

I have nothing to add really, just wanted to say I read the subject as "Fingering"

RiverTam · 18/08/2016 10:12

I can fangirl obsessively with the best of them, and I'm 45, but Sid Vicious? Junkie murderer Sid Vicious? Interesting that fancying a pedophile is a complete no-no but a murderer is fine?

WoburnSands · 18/08/2016 10:38

ohmywhatamisaying - haha I often read words wrongly!

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WoburnSands · 18/08/2016 10:41

RiverTam - In theory I get what you're saying - I hate double standards and all that - but - thing is Sid Vicious has never been actually convicted of murder !

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Just5minswithDacre · 18/08/2016 10:43

Dacre, I would say that a fangirl (or fanboy) is someone who participates in a fandom.

So a fangirl writes fanfic, makes fan art, writes meta about their fandom, makes podcasts, has fandom friends, plays fan based games or spends a lot of time consuming stuff made by other fans

It sounds exhausting! Smile

WoburnSands · 18/08/2016 10:47

..although his heavy drug use is widely acknowledged.

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DaughtersofTriton · 18/08/2016 10:50

Nope YANBU.

I met two of my all time heroes this week and I definitely had a discreet fangirl moment once safely out of earshot Grin

WoburnSands · 18/08/2016 10:54

DaughtersofTriton - congratulations ! TWO of them ! - you'll remember that moment no doubt for a time !

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WoburnSands · 18/08/2016 10:54

long* time

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DaughtersofTriton · 18/08/2016 11:08

I definitely will! I'm not really bothered about meeting celebs or getting autographs or anything like that usually, but I made an exception this time Grin Been waiting so long to meet them and they are absolutely superb, national treasures for a reason!

auldfuckingspinster · 18/08/2016 12:19

If you're going for skinny punk bassists i'm more of a Paul Simonon or Richard Hell woman.

WoburnSands · 18/08/2016 12:28

DaughtersofTriton
national treasures ? Must be v high profile then..

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WoburnSands · 18/08/2016 12:29

I've heard of Richard Hell auldfuckingspinster but can't put a face to either name!!
...goes off to google...

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DaughtersofTriton · 18/08/2016 12:35

Two v famous Knights of the realm Woburn

One is often seen in the company of hobbits, the other spent a lot of time in space during the late 80s and early 90s...Wink

SestraClone · 18/08/2016 12:40

This thread was a weird read and I now know that I am not a "fangirl" of any description. Grin

WoburnSands · 18/08/2016 12:41

DaughtersofTriton aha! - I think I can at least guess one of them!!

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WoburnSands · 18/08/2016 12:42

Sestra I don't think I am in the strict description of the word either!!

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WoburnSands · 18/08/2016 12:43

auldspinster I can see the appeal with Paul Simonon!!

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phoenix1404 · 18/08/2016 16:37

I'm a fangirl and proud Smile I've met the object of my obsession several times and he now describes me as a friend Shock Grin He's properly lovely.

Nataleejah · 18/08/2016 16:47

phoenix that must be nice! Grin do you have only one obsession or more?

WoburnSands · 18/08/2016 16:52

That's lovely phoenix ! x

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phoenix1404 · 18/08/2016 16:52

Just the one, Nataleejah