To wear jeans to a wedding

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I have a wedding coming up. Not back to pre baby body and still feel very self conscious about wearing dresses.
I was thinking black jeans & heels with this white top - m2.hm.com/m/en_gb/productpage.0409683002.html
And this jacket - m2.hm.com/m/en_gb/productpage.0338033003.html
Or will it look too casual? Hopefully the links all work

How about wearing a breastfeeding dress, even if you are not breastfeeding, the dresses are usually sympathetically designed to cover any areas new mums are sympathetic.

www.izzysmum.co.uk/p/D8101P/sleveless-tiered-ruffle-nursing-dress/#.V4HxAarTVSA

New mums are sensitive about *

This one is very pretty

www.izzysmum.co.uk/p/BFS606POT/frugi-breastfeeding-skater-dress/#.V4Hyb6rTVSA

This dress would be great on a pear shape (not breastfeeding)

m.asos.com/mt/www.asos.com/ASOS-Petite/ASOS-PETITE-SALON-Beautiful-Floral-Placed-Midi-Prom-Dress/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=6413080&cid=8350&sh=0&pge=0&pgesize=50&sort=-1&clr=Multi&totalstyles=417&gridsize=3&un_jtt_v_frompage=0

No

YSL smoking suit Pretty sure I know the suit you mean ... you lucky woman!

Can we have a photo of the quiff, please?

OP, I'm of the "wear what makes you feel good about yourself" persuasion. But since you asked, I don't think that blazer goes with the jeans. A longish, loose shirt might look more stylish, and also help you feel less vulnerable. Jazz it up with shoes and accessories.

How about a capri's in a floral print. They would like fine for a wedding with the right top.

Or go vintage, embrace your tiny waist, buy a big underskirt and rock a fifties style dress

www.lindybop.co.uk/wedding-guest-dresses-t253

Agree that dresses or skirts are often more flattering than jeans anyway. Do keep a look out OP. I am in the jeans = not weddingy camp, and if you're set on trousers I think the suggestions above of wide legged trousers and floaty top, or floral capris, are good.

If it were my wedding I would not care what you wore as long as you were there, happy and comfortable. But if I were to get married again I would elope, because this is the sort of thing that puts me off any sort of 'do'.

I bought a dress after all the advice from everyone.
Thank you for all your suggestions & help

Photo!!

Oh, that's nice :) Perfect print for a wedding, too.

That's lovely! A really great flattering print and waistline.

Pepperbury, which is linked to Bravissimo, do some lovely dresses for curvey ladies, quite flattering and smart.

www.bravissimo.com/pepperberry/products/dresses/occasion-and-party-dresses/#/2

Ahh that's nice op, very smart and looks quite flattering.

Lovely, OP. Well done!

It's gorgeous! Well done.

Fab, really summery, fresh beautiful contemporary print and colours.

You'll enjoy wearing it!

Lovely choice :)

Well done! Hope you have a lovely day!

Well, I'm sorry you caved in to MN peer pressure..... but that is a really georgeous dress. I think you will look fantastic.

Evening time you could get away with just about, not ceremony though. Maybe try finding jewellery like a decorative necklace too? Just to stray away from being too casual