Ex leaves 3 year old in car at petrol station. AIBU to be livid?

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DD has just told me that daddy always leaves her in the car when he goes in to pay for the petrol.
Can think of a few 'what if's' which might seem extreme & ultimate feel fucked off at his negligence. AIBU to feel this way? Or am I just OTT?

OTT

Seems OTT if she's buckled in. More risk of being hot by a car crossing the forecourt than being engulfed in an explosion.

You're OTT. DC probably much more likely to get hurt walking on the forecourt.

Completely ott, I have always done this, much safer than dragging them across the forecourt.

Definitely OTT.

Off the wall OTT.

OTT it's more dangerous to take them across the forecourt than to leave them strapped in and in view for a few minutes.

Batshit OTT.

Wildly OTT

It's more dangerousness getting them out. Full on ott

Massively OTT. I've never taken my dc in to pay for petrol.

Way OTT. I always did this with dd, 99% of other parents seem to do this from what I see.

Totally ott whilst I understand that it's a hot topic in parenting and many disagree on whether to do it or not you're completely overreacting calling it negligence

Frankly get a grip

Yes YABU. And ridiculous.

Very OTT, far safer in the car.

There is nothing negligent about this.

Yep, OTT.

If she's buckled in and the car is locked I don't see the problem. He can, presumably, see her the whole time. I do this with my DS and he's much younger than your DD.

YABU.

Ott. These aren't the battles you should chose to fight with ex

I do this (if I can't pay at pump). I can see the car the whole time.

You are more OTT than a very OTT thing.

Yes, you are OTT

I have always left DC in the car when paying for petrol.
What do you think might happen?

This comes up all the time. There will be many coming on sharing your view in a while, don't worry, but I think what your ex is doing is fine.

WTAF? Do people really think about this sort of shit?