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Don't want to read and run....wtf?

104 replies

wolfwhistleme · 12/05/2016 10:42

namechanged. I find this phrase completely and utterly unnecessary and annoying..so there! Ok..those that go to the effort of prefixing this phrase to a sentence are not actually reading and running but they want you to know that they're not reading and running..it makes no sense!

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AyeAmarok · 12/05/2016 10:44

It's to bump the thread so that other people who are more able to help might see it.

AyeAmarok · 12/05/2016 10:44

Why on earth would you need to namechange for this?

DonkeyOaty · 12/05/2016 10:46

What she said ^

abbsismyhero · 12/05/2016 10:46

if someone wants support and you don't have that much time reading a message like this may be good for them

if you post something that's important to you no one answers and it's just fucking depressing

wolfwhistleme · 12/05/2016 10:48

well, don't want to be known as a winder upper you know....Wink.. but it does get on my nerves.

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KittyKrap · 12/05/2016 10:48

I always assumed it was a bump to get it onto the active part so that people with better advice could help. Or just a hand hold to let the op know they're not alone, depending on subject.

snowymountaintops · 12/05/2016 10:49

Why have you namechanged? How peculiar.

abbsisyhero sums it up nicely. If you can't help with a problem but are sympathetic then it is nice to acknowledge the person and their post which may have taken a lot of courage to write.

PurpleDaisies · 12/05/2016 10:50

If it annoys you, don't use it. Problem solved. Smile

wolfwhistleme · 12/05/2016 10:50

Stuff like "what she said" ^^ is a bit lazy too!

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Vardyparty · 12/05/2016 10:51

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

wolfwhistleme · 12/05/2016 10:52

I don't use it! Problem not solved as other people keep using it and I think the phrase should be banned!

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MyKingdomForBrie · 12/05/2016 10:52

If you need to name change you know you're unreasonable. I always see that comment as being slightly apologetic - I can't really be helpful but I want to be supportive because I feel for you. It's nice.

gamerchick · 12/05/2016 10:52

Its just a bump up. Sometimes things drop off the page past so people bump it up. It's nothing to get your knickers in a twist about.

Or would you prefer just bump?

PaulAnkaTheDog · 12/05/2016 10:52

What a stupid thread.

wolfwhistleme · 12/05/2016 10:53

Thankyou Mykingdom..I may get a petition going to ban the phrase.

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gamerchick · 12/05/2016 10:53

I personally think that namechanging to whinge is a bit off. Own your shit.

AyeAmarok · 12/05/2016 10:53

OK, thread police.

What other rules would you like us all to abide by?

wolfwhistleme · 12/05/2016 10:53

Thankyou for your contribution Paul. You didn't read and run!

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PaulAnkaTheDog · 12/05/2016 10:54

Wouldn't want to annoy you Grin

Thornrose · 12/05/2016 10:54

I think you're on a wind up. Why name change?

MilkTwoSugarsThanks · 12/05/2016 10:55

I think it's nice when people use it. Sometimes you can read a thread and have no experience of the situation so unable to offer advice BUT the OP is in a bad place and her/his thread dropping out of Active with no replies at all could make them feel worse.

DonkeyOaty · 12/05/2016 10:56
thelittleredhen · 12/05/2016 10:56

I like people not reading and running, it shows that although they have no expertise to bring to the thread, they do have compassion and sometimes that's what you need.

RockMeMomma · 12/05/2016 10:57

Yabu

Thornrose · 12/05/2016 10:58

^^what everyone else but you said^^^^

How do you feel about strike through use?

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