Lily Just because you like doing research, and put in a lot of time doing it, it doesn't mean you are any good at it. I'll ask you the same question that I put to the OP, do you have any formal training in research or are you just finding stuff on Google?
Part of being able to carry out research with great efficacy is knowing which opinions to listen to, how to interpret the data you are given, and how not to pick your sources based on confirmational bias.
If you have access to actual journal articles from respected institutions, and you can convey the arguements presented in a balanced and unbiased opinion then go ahead, educate us. Unfortunately, much like OP you don't seem to have a full grasp of what you are talking about (nor the ability to put your point across without alienating your audience).
It is very clear that you care for your future child (best of luck ttc) but it is virtually impossible to prepare everything before pregnancy or birth. Common sense and social ettique would suggest that you don't go spouting off about issues that you only have a theoretical knowledge about.
When I was pregnant with my dd I said to my dp that I was not going to get too hung up on how our baby would be fed or born. I knew the risks of cs and how "natural" births were preferable to surgery, I knew what my preferences were for birth but also not too rigid knowing that birth may not go according to how I imagined it would . I read up on how I wanted to manage the the third stage of labour, about delayed cord cutting, and how important skin to skin contact was after birth. Unfortunately I had absolutely no choice and ended up with a category 1 emcs due to severe preeclampsia. There was no way I could have predicted that, or even prepared for it given that my symptoms came on vv fast and were only detected when I went into hospital for worries about reduced movement. There was also no way of predicting how much it would affect me. Again, it didn't matter how much I thought I knew, or how I thought I would respond, until it happened.
The same goes for bf. No amount of reading up on the benefits of breastmilk would have helped my dd latch on when she needed her lip tie and tongue tie corrected before she could even get her mouth open wide enough to try to feed. It didn't matter how many hours I spent on kellymom, or reading Jack Newman's blog, or doing literature search (from actual research journals) on galactologues when my useless tits literally could not produce enough milk to sustain my child. Once again, it didn't matter how prepared I thought I was, or how I knew 100% that formula was better that an unhappy, starving baby, it was unexpectedly devestating.
You do not know how things will turn out, you do not know the realities of day to day life with your child and you do not know what decisions you will have to make until you have/raise a child of your own.
Come back in a few years time and let us know how you coped. You'll probably be surprised yourself at how different things are to how planned for them to be.