"I am offended that people will look at my sons in years to come and think "he could be a rapist him"
Women will stop wondering which men are rapists and which ones aren't, when men stop raping in the extraordinarily large numbers they do
"It's just all us mothers of boys who are bringing up monsters in the making." Speak for yourself. My son's not a monster in the making.
"Not all men are potential rapists either because not all men want to do it. You only think they are potential rapists because of their genitals and that's it, and that's fucking vile."
And yet, if women give men the benefit of the doubt and trust them and then get raped by them, people say "well what did she expect".
I have on some occasions in the past, declined an invitation to go into a man's house, on the basis that I didn't know him well enough and just felt a bit awkward about it. I've never declined an invitation to a woman's house even when I wasn't as well acquainted with the woman.
Not because of their genitals. But because a man is more likely to attack me than a woman is. And if he did attack me, everyone would say: "well what did she think would happen, going into his house?" "He didn't exactly drag her in there, did he?" "she went willingly".
So if women are cautious around men on the basis of the recorded behaviour of people with the same genitals as them, we're vile, and if we're not and they rape us, we're naieve and foolish and probably lying, because what did we expect?
Schrodinger's Rapist