I supplement my income by doing a variety of thugs but one is alterations/seamstress work.
I tend to hold a policy that I don't do work for friends/family as it creates issues (if it's not as expected or there's a problem or money type issues)
Anyway, a friend has lost weight and needed a dress altering for a wedding. She took it to a place locally but they didn't do a great job. She begged me to alter it.
This involved some 10+ hours work.
During all the begging I clearly stated multiple times that I didn't want to die to my reasons above and that I can't afford to work for free or even much discount. I usually charge £10 an hour.
She kept saying 'I'll pay you I'll pay you' 'Money isn't the issue here I really want this dress' etc etc.
You can see where this is going right?
I caved. I did the alteration. It took me ages. Not because I'm not good at it, because it involved so much unpicking and undoing of the poor work done already.
She picked it up, fits like a dream. She handed me £20. My jaw dropped a bit and she said 'what's wrong? Oh! Your not going to exploit me are you?'
I said 'it seems like your exploiting me!'
I told her how long it took and how much work and I said I would want at least £50, which is a 50% discount and she knew this from the start.
She refused.
I have her dress.
She is now sending me quite nasty messages about how I've ruined her weekend and I'm only doing this cos I'm jealous of her weight loss and stuff like that.
I'm really fucked off.
I didn't tell her a price at the start as I didn't know how long it would take.
She says I'm being U to expect her to spend this much money on one dress (original cost plus 2 alterations) and also that as were 'friend she should get mates rates.
AIBU to have kept the dress til she pays me?
AIBU?
to be mightily pissed off
MooningIntoTheAbyss · 07/05/2016 08:43
I've only just seen this thread so was skimming through it thinking "unpick all the work you've done and give it back to her like that" but what a great outcome! 
Enjoy your wine and £££s!
I've loved this thread. Now who's going to get the film rights? 
Great outcome wtg Mooning!
Although I've got a funny feeling the £20 was from her and the £100 was out of his pocket just to shut her the fuck up as I bet she was doing his head in bitching about it ...
Just tell her you needed the money urgently and you sold it (don't actually sell it though!! ) wait until after you speak to her to sell it. Wait to see her reaction she whether she just leaves in a bad mood or gives you the money and begs you for forgiveness asks if there was anyway of getting it back. Or tell her if you don't get full payment by X/X/X then you have no other choice other than to sell it. I'd go mad if that was me. Maybe ring the police? Hope you can get your money
Maybe should have invited him in to share the wine 
I quite like a man still in work clothes with a bit of grime on his hands
skips off humming thug life
I supplement my income by doing a variety of thugs
Well, if it pays the bills ...
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Just read this from the beginning. What a lovely man, how on earth he is married to her is beyond me! Very glad to see a happy ending for you though! Hope you enjoyed that wine!
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