I supplement my income by doing a variety of thugs but one is alterations/seamstress work.
I tend to hold a policy that I don't do work for friends/family as it creates issues (if it's not as expected or there's a problem or money type issues)
Anyway, a friend has lost weight and needed a dress altering for a wedding. She took it to a place locally but they didn't do a great job. She begged me to alter it.
This involved some 10+ hours work.
During all the begging I clearly stated multiple times that I didn't want to die to my reasons above and that I can't afford to work for free or even much discount. I usually charge £10 an hour.
She kept saying 'I'll pay you I'll pay you' 'Money isn't the issue here I really want this dress' etc etc.
You can see where this is going right?
I caved. I did the alteration. It took me ages. Not because I'm not good at it, because it involved so much unpicking and undoing of the poor work done already.
She picked it up, fits like a dream. She handed me £20. My jaw dropped a bit and she said 'what's wrong? Oh! Your not going to exploit me are you?'
I said 'it seems like your exploiting me!'
I told her how long it took and how much work and I said I would want at least £50, which is a 50% discount and she knew this from the start.
She refused.
I have her dress.
She is now sending me quite nasty messages about how I've ruined her weekend and I'm only doing this cos I'm jealous of her weight loss and stuff like that.
I'm really fucked off.
I didn't tell her a price at the start as I didn't know how long it would take.
She says I'm being U to expect her to spend this much money on one dress (original cost plus 2 alterations) and also that as were 'friend she should get mates rates.
AIBU to have kept the dress til she pays me?
AIBU?
to be mightily pissed off
MooningIntoTheAbyss · 07/05/2016 08:43
Can you imagine dresszilla's face if she's reading this thread 👿
I have had a monumentally shit day with the DS's. This thread has made my day!
It has also made me wonder (not for the first time) why people choose to expend so much energy being dicks to other people. It's just so sad and surely only brings bad karma.
Fab ending - well done op and enjoy your new things
I wonder if crazy dress ladies husband is a musnetter! waves cheery bye!
Glad you got yourself something nice with the money for your hard work OP
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He sounds lovely!
You say you're single?
I don't normally advocate breaking up couples but he could do soooo much better than her! 
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