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AIBU?

To be upset by the remarks of a psychic?

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EverySongbirdSays · 05/04/2016 18:58

Obviously I do know that most psychics are charlatans and this one certainly was. Nothing he told me was spontaneous and was all based off my answers to his questions. He said some pretty harsh things though - AIBU to be upset by them even though I know it's absolute rot.

  1. It's too late for me and I won't have natural children. I'm 34.

  2. I go after guys that are out of my league (whatever that is)

  3. can we talk about my weight? Would I go out with a fat person?

  4. I'll probably never marry and should get a cat!

    Somebody help me see the funny side here I'm a bit upset even though I shouldn't be.

    COST : £35
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thecatneuterer · 06/04/2016 17:16

Massively missing the point of the thread but not all rescue centres make life so difficult and there are far too many cats for the number of homes available. By buying a cat you are encouraging breeding and thus adding to the problem, by rescuing you a making a small contribution to solving it.

To find details of all the rescues in your area and many of the cats they have available go to //www.catchat.org

Oh and all psychics are indeed charlatans.

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imeatingthechocolate · 06/04/2016 17:53

get a bombay cat if you can they are so chilled and are the best kind! persians are too demanding for me personally

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CandyFlossBrain · 06/04/2016 18:09

Is there a review site for psychics? If so, go there and warn women that they'll be paying £35 to hear the rantings of a woman hater.

My ex was sucked in by a 'psychic'. He insisted on flying to meet this guy (another seaside one) every month for a new reading. This one was clever enough to mix in promises of fame and fortune alongside the stuff that made him terrified. I warned him to cut the guy off, but he was convinced this was his best mate because he never even charged him for consultations. Then the guy phoned and said if he didn't get an instant bank transfer of thousands he wouldn't be able to stop something awful happening to my ex's child. So he did it!

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EverySongbirdSays · 06/04/2016 18:16

Wow Candy and he paid? That's so bad.

I went looking for a review site last night didn't find one.

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KidLorneRoll · 06/04/2016 22:08

"I have natural psychic abilities. "

No, you don't. You are simply deluded.

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IgnoreMeEveryOtherReindeerDoes · 07/04/2016 00:19

loreleighere

I regretted my post as soon as I hit the reply button, as it's not something I usually discuss even when I've been in company and topic has come up. It was something that I did only with like minded people, didn't mind questions but didn't feel I need to defend what was my belief at the time. I can probably make myself seem crazy without needing to add that to it. My DD thought it was all whoo hoo bollocks so we never discussed my unicorn powers beliefs. I could tell you how I picked Aunt Shirley and all information I get but haters going to hate. BTW I haven't got Aunt Shirley from beyond before anyone starts, as all I can think about is how I haven't got any fags, crap.

Backed away from all that spiritual stuff now as it got to much as I couldn't just switch off others emotions as you can't fix or magically make everything great again when someone has lost a loved one, just with a reading. They teach you how to switch off but I couldn't work like that and I came across so many desperate people begging for messages. The ones I found the most heartbreaking was those who had lost children and the way a reader would be applauded for their great information before moving onto the next, I couldn't leave the sitter like that at the end which I got told off for. I've witness some awful readers and when I have spoken up, it resulted me in being silenced and even banned from few places.

Still believe that their are some great readers out there, even though I have closed that chapter of my life and its like any thing though if someone believes they can make £ out of someone they feel can be taken advantage of they will, tarnishing the rest.

Am off to think of new name now as I'm bored of this one.

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ThatsNotMyRabbit · 07/04/2016 00:51

OP I'd love to know who this bloke is if you wouldn't mind PMing me 🙂

Baby love - you do not have psychic abilities.

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EverySongbirdSays · 07/04/2016 16:14

Rabbit done

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LifeofI · 07/04/2016 16:50

she is a con but i dont think all psychics are. My cousin went to a psychic who charged £100. She told my cousin who said she will never have children again that she will have a daughter and she will have light eyes. My cousin is black so its not like its likely she will have a child with light eyes.
Two years later she had a daughter who is black with blue/green eyes.

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ThatsNotMyRabbit · 07/04/2016 19:30

Thanks songbird 😄

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IJustLostTheGame · 07/04/2016 20:09

Op give me £35 and I shall summon a cat for you with my psychic powers.
You can have next doors, it keeps shitting in my garden and yowling at 3am. I'll even deliver the ginger arsed sod.

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EverySongbirdSays · 07/04/2016 20:34

Game Grin

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CaptainMarvelDanvers · 07/04/2016 20:35

Physics/mediums have been debunked over and over again since the 19th Century. People often cite knowing a medium who is the real deal because 'they know something that no other person could know'. They are magicians out there who could give you the same answers the mediums give except they don't pretend to talk to dead people and target the bereaved.

I did write a massive long post but deleted it because it was just really ranty but I knew someone (lets call her Sue) who regularly saw a medium and because the medium wasn't charging her she believed everything the fraud said. This medium for nearly 2 years had control of this Sue's life, she got her to ditch her friends because Sue's deceased child could see them bitching about her. She also told Sue that she had another deceased child because she had a miscarriage and didn't know about it, so Sue went ended up grieving for 2 deceased children and kept going back to this medium who just seemed to lavish in the power and attention that exploiting Sue's situation gave her. Sue ended up meeting a guy, moved away and realised that this medium was just an awful person.

For some of these frauds it's not all about money, it's about their ego. So OP don't believe in this dickhead or any other of the dickheads claiming to be psychic.

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LikeDylanInTheMovies · 08/04/2016 13:05

Yeah it is interesting that nineteenth century mediums were far more 'out there' than their 21st century equivalents. Flying tables, regurgitating ectoplasm, spirit photography etc. were debunked in the 1920s. These days the tricks they use are altogether tamer: vague predictions about the future and bland platitudes from dead relatives about 'how they miss you and say not worry, because they're looking over you.'

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SmarterThanTheAverageBear16 · 08/04/2016 14:08

Its not that haters gonna hate, more like thinkers gonna think. And do science and shit.
If you are utterly convinced you are psychic that just means the first victim of your con is yourself. You've deluded and tricked yourself into believeing in nonsense and then you move on to other people. It's sad really.

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Mousefinkle · 08/04/2016 15:31

My best friend is hugely gullible towards all manner of woo. He definitely believes in psychic abilities. It doesn't matter how many times I have explained they're either cold reading or using mentalism, he just won't have any of it because psycics he's seen have told him things they couldn't possibly have known... One told him something he'd never told anyone else apparently so that's his definitive proof Hmm. He's also into tarot, crystals and their 'amazing healing abilities', karma, star and moon signs, God and all the rest. We're totally opposite like this, I've always been a cynical pessimist atheist that believes in science.

To me if anyone genuinely has psychic abilities they won't charge. I said this to him because he has a 'psychic' friend that charges £40 an hour. If she really is a psychic, why isn't she spreading around the information she has about people out of the kindness of her heart? He says it's a business, she still has to have money to live like anyone else... Hmm. Work a normal job, do that in your spare time FOR FREE.

They're all either deluded idiots or charlatans that usually prey on the vulnerable. They make me sick. I love Derren Brown for all of his work exposing them and their tricks.

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LikeDylanInTheMovies · 08/04/2016 18:38

What really rips my knitting is that people who believe in this kind of bollocks always present themselves as 'open-minded' when in fact they are being incredibly closed minded, ignoring more credible alternatives that don't contradict the laws of science (cold/hot reading, cognitive bias) and leap on to the near impossibility that the person can see into the future or contact dead relatives for them to exchange pointless platitudes from 'the other side'.

Being open-minded doesn't mean believing everything and suspending your critical faculties. That's being so open minded that your brain falls out.

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IgnoreMeEveryOtherReindeerDoes · 08/04/2016 22:29

Was that post directed at me SmarterThan as you mention about haters gana hate but I never labelled myself as psychic. Never referred to myself as medium either as I'm fickle about labels other than Lone parent.

Is it just those who believe to have Clair senses-abilities that are deluded or does that include all things like colour therapy and meditation etc, both of which was just a few others things I learnt and used in the same manner during that chapter in my life or are they a different kind of deluded.

How does science stand these days regarding God, I'm out of touch with science and it might be a route One day I may choose to go down.

End of day we all have our own beliefs and I would never false mine on anyone they are something I've learnt along the way.

I'm all up for discussion and interested in others points of view it's how I learn so being called 'deluded or any other name calling' is pointless it teaches nothing.

I've always been against and told people never go to someone who charges, if I had my way I would never allow these fairs to so called celebrity readers but I'm just a little voice.

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stumblymonkey · 12/04/2016 06:30

I think we really need to get back to the important thing in this thread....

Did you get the cat OP?

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LurkingHusband · 12/04/2016 09:25

What really rips my knitting

What a great expression ! (Adds to vocabulary)

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EverySongbirdSays · 12/04/2016 12:47

stumblymonkey not yet! Have decided to wait til I've moved!!

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