AIBU about my DP's sandwich making weirdness? This is serious shit.

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My DP made me a BLT last week. I asked for mayo, so he put mayo on one slice of bread, then butter on the other.

I didn't want butter, and thought it was weird that he considered that an integral part of sandwich making. I politely pointed this out and he said he wouldn't put butter in my sandwiches again unless I specifically requested it.

So, the other day he made me another BLT. No butter. Just mayo. All good you say? NO! Because he only put the mayo on one slice of the bread. So I had one dry slice of bread on one side of my sandwich. I went to get the mayo to add to the dry bread (because WTF?) and he now claims I am massive sandwich fascist and there's no difference between having sauce on one slice of bread rather than both.

I think he's a massive freak. Plus he always slightly toasts his bread before sandwich making. Which makes my unbuttered/unsauced slice EVEN DRIER!

Please tell me there's no one else out there this odd?

What about cheese on toast. When dh makes it he doesn't ensure that the cheese goes up to the edges. That's not too big a deal except that he doesn't butter the uncheesed edges!!

Butter on every sandwich. Especially Nutella.
I'm not bothered about Mayo in sandwiches and can't abide those mixed u mayonnaisey fillings shops and cafes have.

I will not eat sliced bread or a soft rolls that come in plastic bags. I don't really like any sandwich not freshly made. The classic British party buffet is one of my food hell situations.