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Original poster

Dp promised to cook.. He came home with food for himself!

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Stressedmama16 · 09/03/2016 19:30

I'm fully aware I'm being a pregnant hormonal bitch.

Iv had the flu all day and last night. Dp went to his mums house to sort out some of his old stuff. He texted me at 4 saying he doesn't want to be back late as he wants to cook tea. Fine, I didn't cook myself anything and sorted the kids out.

He walked in at 7 with some food for himself from his mum, made his own tea and than sat and ate it next to me. Before he even had said hello!!

I'm so upset. I'm hungry, poorly and pregnant.

😩😩😩😩

So Iv stormed off upstairs and he hasn't even asked me what's wrong.

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ephemeralfairy · 09/03/2016 19:35

Err, YANBU!! how rude and inconsiderate of him. By him saying he wants to cook tea, you quite naturally assumed he meant for you as well, because you're pregnant and all.
He is either very selfish or very stupid or both. Can you order a pizza for yourself or something? and he can pay!

ephemeralfairy · 09/03/2016 19:35

Or send him out to get you something!

GooodMythicalMorning · 09/03/2016 19:39

yanbu at all! order takeaway for yourself and eat it in front of him!

ScarletForYa · 09/03/2016 19:39

He must have a death wish!

That's Fecking outrageous!

Original poster
Stressedmama16 · 09/03/2016 19:41

I haven't got any money for a take away. Hes now laid on the sofa and not talking to me :(

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Lightbulbon · 09/03/2016 19:41

Wtf!

PenelopeChipShop · 09/03/2016 19:41

Yanbu and I'm actually wondering why you aren't also annoyed that he had to be out all day leaving you ill and pregnant with the kids?! Sorting stuff out doesn't sound massively urgent.

Then again I am 37 weeks and also very hormonal and moody!!

balia · 09/03/2016 19:42

Since when did 'cooking the tea' not include the DC's? Does he think they absorb nutrition from the air? Go back down and ask him when he is cooking tea.

GloGirl · 09/03/2016 19:42

Stop being passive aggressive and tell him why you are stropping.

travellinghopefully12 · 09/03/2016 19:42

that's outrageous, can you make him pay for take away or make something for you? Remind him he said he wanted to cook tea, and tell him you were waiting (and still are waiting) for yours.

LuisSuarezTeeth · 09/03/2016 19:42

What a cock.

Ameliablue · 09/03/2016 19:42

Do you normally eat together?

usual · 09/03/2016 19:43

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RunRabbitRunRabbit · 09/03/2016 19:44

Don't you talk to each other?

Scarydinosaurs · 09/03/2016 19:45

No cash or no money?

If no cash can you order online?

Can you make yourself some peanut butter on toast?

Wagglebees · 09/03/2016 19:45

Wtf?

ephemeralfairy · 09/03/2016 19:46

Yeah, you need to have it out with him I think. He is being a dick.

NoCapes · 09/03/2016 19:48

What the fuck?! Hmm

bearleftmonkeyright · 09/03/2016 19:50

Let me get this straight. You have cooked tea for the DC? Could he have assumed that you had eaten with them? You need to tell him. On the face of it this sounds absolutely shit but I am still wondering if there is a chance he has misunderstood.

FigMango1 · 09/03/2016 19:51

Wow why are you even with him. More fool you. He's so selfish and is this how it works with you both? And his mother sending food for just himShock

Original poster
Stressedmama16 · 09/03/2016 19:51

We normally eat together in the evenings.

Iv told him how I feel and he's just ignoring me.

Iv put a pizza in for myself.

I have no energy what so ever. If he had asked I would have cooked tea, didn't realise he was coming home with food diarrhoea from his mums. 😡😪

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Original poster
Stressedmama16 · 09/03/2016 19:52

He didn't know Iv cooked dc tea, he wouldn't have known.

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UnderTheGreenwoodTree · 09/03/2016 19:52

Whaaat? Is this for real?

I can't believe anyone would do that. I can't believe anyone would survive doing that to a pregnant woman Grin

bearleftmonkeyright · 09/03/2016 19:53

Well he's a selfish cock then. Sorry you are putting up with this. Glad you are eating something, you need to look after yourself.

UnderTheGreenwoodTree · 09/03/2016 19:54

I would:

Kick him out of the bedroom.

Cook my own delicious meal tomorrow and none for him.

But I'm like that - I don't take shit from people I live with, that I'm supposed to love.