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to think "neighbour" has assaulted my child

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BubbleBathAddict · 06/02/2016 08:17

Basically my 11 year old son was in a group of school friends yesterday after school. On the way home from the park they played "knock down ginger" -ie they knocked on a couple of front doors quite near us and ran away. Now this is not something I was aware of or would condone, but on the scale of "crime" it's not something to get too excited about.

My son said he did not do the knocking and stayed on the pavement.
At the second house the woman came out and yelled. The boys ran. All of them more quickly than my son it seems. Half way home (a few houses only) he felt someone grab his wrist and the said woman insisted he tell her where he live and frog-marched him home. He was in tears. I was at work, but his dad and older brother were in.

I do not know the woman at all. She apparently said her children were scared. I am pretty furious that she thought it was OK to grab and intimidate a child. That might have been appropriate 40 years ago, but these days touching anyone without consent is battery isn't it?

I don't want to over-react, but will be going over there today. What would you do?

OP posts:
Bettercallsaul1 · 06/02/2016 19:40
Grin
LoisWilkersonsLastNerve · 06/02/2016 19:40

Chappie is chap a door then run. Grin Not the op's neighbour though. She's had enough nonsense.

Bettercallsaul1 · 06/02/2016 19:42

Sorry, Summer -that was to Lois!

fastdaytears · 06/02/2016 19:45

Oh sorry! Never heard that.

It was Knock Down Ginger here or (very unimaginatively) Knock Knock Run

I do not know this first hand because my mum would have killed me and eaten me if I had played this.

No creme eggs anywhere in the house. Is there a creme egg delivery service?

liz70 · 06/02/2016 19:45

Chappie = chap i.e. knock and run away.

Bettercallsaul1 · 06/02/2016 19:45

I'll come, Lois! Haven't had any excitement for forty years.

OhShutUpThomas · 06/02/2016 19:46

and without over-reacting was going to suggest it might not be a good idea to grab strange children as their parents might not be so understanding.

I actually laughed out loud at this!

Cheers for this OP Grin

Gruntfuttock · 06/02/2016 19:46

"Chappie is chap a door then run."

Where do you leave that "chap" means "knock"?

Gruntfuttock · 06/02/2016 19:48

"live" not "leave" ^^

liz70 · 06/02/2016 19:48

To chap means to knock in parts of Scotland.

Bettercallsaul1 · 06/02/2016 19:52

See how educational this thread is!

StayWithMe · 06/02/2016 19:54

Is that better Better?

Sorry he's a wee bit annoyed because I woke him up. Well I did tire him out, after all. Wink

sugar21 · 06/02/2016 19:55

Couldn't resist

to think "neighbour" has assaulted my child
Woodhill · 06/02/2016 19:56

He won't be doing it again will he? Maybe one of life's lessons.

Bettercallsaul1 · 06/02/2016 19:58

Thank you, ladies!

sugar21 · 06/02/2016 20:01

Astride hmmmm

to think "neighbour" has assaulted my child
BuzzardBird · 06/02/2016 20:04

Oh yes!

Bettercallsaul1 · 06/02/2016 20:07

We all understood that (not so) stealth boast, Sugar!

Bettercallsaul1 · 06/02/2016 20:10

Oh sorry, you're not the one tiring Aidan out! Grin

Kennington · 06/02/2016 20:12

Kids came knocking and ran off once - it is frightening because you don't know what is happening. Plus my child was upset.
He is lucky he doesn't have an Asbo.
However to call it assault is so ridiculous I can only assume you are winding us all up. It is an insult to actual victims of assault.

IloveAntbuthateDec · 06/02/2016 20:39

Your son played rat tat ginger. He got caught. Tough luck on him. Maybe he will learn to run faster next time or maybe he will realise what a pratt he has been and wont bother harassing the neighbours in the future. Assault my arse! :D

sugar21 · 06/02/2016 20:46

Better
The gorgeous Mr T is very welcome to tire me out Grin

MammaTJ · 06/02/2016 20:53

Yep, go round tear a strip off her! Then in a few years time, he will know you support him no matter what! Try having a go at the judge when his anti social behaviour is so bad they want to lock him up for it. See how far that gets you, and him!

Bettercallsaul1 · 06/02/2016 20:55

Oh, yes, Sugar, me too! But I bet StayWithMe won't share ... Sad

StayWithMe · 06/02/2016 22:13

Oh, yes, Sugar, me too! But I bet StayWithMe won't share

Sorry ladies, but I've tired him out...ahem...rearranging the bed. Wink

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