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To have had a bloody good cry over the news about David Bowie this morning

264 replies

MrsAxewound · 11/01/2016 09:26

Bit of a strange way to react to the death of a stranger I guess but I am such a fan of his. I kinda cried like a family member had died! In my defence I am pregnant so I could just blame hormones Wink

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OnlyLovers · 11/01/2016 12:58

Just heard Kooks on 6Music. What a beautiful song about freaky love.

I'm in tears all over again.

evilcherub · 11/01/2016 12:59

I am so so sad about his death too. Seems like a whole era of wonderful people and the associated culture they brought with them are dying out and being replaced by a very nasty, selfish, shallow culture.

OnlyLovers · 11/01/2016 13:03

Fuck. Just HOWLED at Space Oddity 'Tell my wife I love her very much/She knows'. Sad

I'm a wreck today. Thank God I'm working at home alone.

seagreengirl · 11/01/2016 13:03

He wasn't a stranger to me. I was 13 when Life on Mars was released, and I was literally obsessed. Posters on every wall of my bedroom, music playing constantly, poring over the music magazines. I haven't even played his music much in the past twenty years, but just kept up with what he was doing. I remember sitting in bed in shock when I read about the last gig when he announced that Ziggy Stardust was no more, because in those days before twitter or the internet information was slow.

Today I feel sad and tearful, I feel old, I miss being young. I feel terribly sad for his wife and children, and all that knew and loved him.

AnyFucker · 11/01/2016 13:13

Yes, definitely a reminder of our own mortality and that of our loved ones, when someone who was such a backdrop to our life is gone

snowfallisbeautiful · 11/01/2016 13:22

evilcherub that is so true. Although Coldplay were on with their new single (the monkeys dancing one) and I do think some bands will last the test of time but never in the same way.

That whole X-factor crap has just ruined the way music was.

Yes to 'Tell my wife I love her very much' Sad

Needaninsight · 11/01/2016 13:22

I think it's sad for his family and close friends. Shed a tear. Feel a little upset, yes.

But to be have been in tears for over 3 hours?! Really don't understand that.

RedToothBrush · 11/01/2016 13:22

being replaced by a very nasty, selfish, shallow culture

In fairness I'm not sure I'd call the hedonism of the rock and rock culture particularly socialist and selfless in nature and I think there is a danger in looking at the past and the present in that way.

I think its ok to use rose tinted spectacles as long as we also try and appreciate the great gains and positives we have now.

Bowie himself was a leader and champion of the internet and trying to spread culture.

Just because what we had 20, 30, 40 or 50 years ago is gone or going does not mean that there is not something else out there. Its just different.

Its just the end of a golden era of something, but we may be entering a golden era of something else in the eyes of the next generation.

We can't and shouldn't stand in the way of progress and change. Progress and change were the sounds that make Bowie sound fresh to several generations.

The question is more who is going to bravely stand up in his place and say 'I'm a Blackstar'?

There will be someone. But they are probably for generations younger than me and I will not understand their power, incite, influence and indeed wisdom.

I dunno, I guess I'm left with this idea after running out to buy to buy Blackstar this morning before it sells out that Bowie was aware of how others viewed him but how actually each generation passes the baton to the next one coming and that is how life and ideas are renewed through art and its evolution through the ages.

That probably sounds like a load of pretentious bollocks to some people, but that's what art should be though - interpreted through the eye of the beholder so I guess he got something right.

JoanFerguson · 11/01/2016 13:23

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snowfallisbeautiful · 11/01/2016 13:23

On and off tears for me, obviously not sobbing - it's reminiscing.

Rafflesway · 11/01/2016 13:28

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BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 11/01/2016 13:29

I still can't quite believe it, so no tears yet.

I saw Bowie supporting Tyrannasaurus Rex in 1970/71; he had a mime act, absolutely brilliant.

And as Ziggy a couple of years later in Worthing Town Hall! DH saw Serious Moonlight and we saw Glass Spider together.

Adoring him was one of the big things DH and I had in common when we first met.

We both always said he was the one and only person we would forgive each other for being unfaithful with!

A brave, beautiful genius.

MrsDeVere · 11/01/2016 13:33

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squoosh · 11/01/2016 13:34

YANBU

Anyone who can't understand why people shed tears for musicians who've soundtracked their lives seem to me to be lacking in any kind of soul or imagination.

Nothing at all like sobbing for bloody Diana.

shakeatailfeather · 11/01/2016 13:36

RIP

I felt sad and shocked when I heard this. I am not a huge Bowie fan, but can't imagine a music world without his influence. I do love Starman, Heroes, Changes. The first time I became aware of him was on his duet with Mick Jagger (I was 8 I think and loved the song already) and then shortly after on Under Pressure. This morning I heard an acapella version of this, and Freddie Mercury and David Bowie's voices just gave me goosebumps.

I haven't cried but I do feel very upset by his passing (partly because FiL passed away 5 years ago almost to the day of cancer, and I can imagine all to well how he has suffered)

I believe many people will be in tears simply because this man created music which touched them personally. I cried when Robin Williams, Stephen Gately and Terry Pratchett passed away because of they impact they had in my life

Needaninsight · 11/01/2016 13:37

Redtooth

being replaced by a very nasty, selfish, shallow culture

Was that nasty comment directed at me?

RonniePickering · 11/01/2016 13:39

I'm not ashamed to admit I shed a little tear this morning.

I had a huge crush on him after watching Labyrinth when I was 10, and I saw him perform at Glastonbury in 2000.

My 11 year old daughter knew who he was when I told her the news this morning.

Absolute legend.

SurferJet · 11/01/2016 13:39

I honestly feel like a tiny piece of me has died too. I'm sure this feeling is all part of getting older & seeing all the great people you grew up with dying.
It's a reminder that none of us are here forever.

snowfallisbeautiful · 11/01/2016 13:40

I don't think we're odd for crying. I'm on my own at home so not a mass thing if you like. It was totally spontaneous this morning at 7am, I turned away from the children with tears pouring down my face. No-one saw and no-one knows apart from other posters on this thread.

Agree squoosh music is sooo important and I think if you've grown up with certain musicians then you are going to be affected by their deaths. Seems odd to me too not to be affected even if only marginally.

EponasWildDaughter · 11/01/2016 13:40

The man that fell to earth has gone back to the stars :(

RIP DB

ButtonMoon88 · 11/01/2016 13:41

It's a real loss to many many people.

SurferJet · 11/01/2016 13:42

& it's not just the middle aged who loved him, my 16 year old ds was massively into his music & left for school this morning visibly shaken.

OnlyLovers · 11/01/2016 13:45

MrsDeVere, what a sad but also wonderful memory the V&A show must be for you. Thanks

RedToothBrush · 11/01/2016 13:49

Needaninsight no. I don't know where you got that idea from. It was a quote from what evilcherub said.

ditherydora · 11/01/2016 13:59

I have been weepy all morning. Not in public though.

Ronnie - I saw him at Glastonbury as well. He was fabulous.