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This is an OTT reaction from crazed DP isn't it??

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LemmysMole · 02/01/2016 22:56

I feel like I'm going crazy.

Earlier dp confused me for his ex for the 2nd time in two days (another thread). On top of this he's been really argumentative and snappy with me for the past week or so - example was recently snapping at me when I mentioned our upcoming wedding saying he was sick of hearing about it. He also seems to have gone off sex and even seems reluctant to kiss me giving me a quick kiss then pulling away.

So tonight when he again confused a time with his ex for a time with me I got upset, told him I was pissed off and when he came to hug me I declined (he does this to me ALL the time! I very rarely do it).

Anyway he shut himself away in the dining room. I gave him 20 minutes or so then went in asking if he was going to watch the movie with me. He said "no". I said "don't be like this, I was upset, can we forget it?" And he went into full blown crazed mode - said I wasn't to touch him or go near him, said he was going to call the police if I went near him, started to call the police when I went to hug him. Told me to fuck off and "do one" ... I started to cry (unusual) and told him I didn't want to argue and he carried kicking off at me - physically pushed me away when I went to hug him, refused to talk to me, said he was 'livid' with me and didn't want me near him and when I begged him to stop it (honestly he was acting like a mad man jumping around saying I was abusing him) he imitated me saying I was a drama queen and how hard must it be to live with such a bastard.

Even if I initially over reacted about the reference to his ex (which I fully admit) surely his response is bat shit crazy?? Or is it me?? I really wonder some times

OP posts:
HighwayDragon1 · 03/01/2016 16:53

When someone tells you who they truly are listen

areyoubeingserviced · 03/01/2016 17:01

Op, you know that he doesn't want you.
Why are you agonising over this man.?
He has given you a get out of jail free card.
Take it and run for the hills

Goingtobeawesome · 03/01/2016 17:27

Forget whether he wants to marry you. Think about why you want to be with someone who does and says all the shit you have told us about.

Aeroflotgirl · 03/01/2016 18:13

How are things today Lemmys, new year, new start Smile

43percentburnt · 03/01/2016 18:22

You can definitely get a mortgage on a probation period (assuming you have good credit, affordability stacks up etc). Speak to a broker.

ErnesttheBavarian · 04/01/2016 18:56

Op as well as taking the brave but necessary step of getting out of this relationship asap you need to try to get yourself in a better place. You need help with your self esteem and building up friendships and a support network. It's sad and unhealthy to be alone.

Do you work? What social opportunities are there? How can you meet people. What area are you in? Maybe some on here are local and could help? I would offer but I suspect you're in UK so not local to me.

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