To be really quite fucked off about the fact that I am currently miscarrying an having to look after DSD

[Emmawemmawoowah]

I'm fuming, livid in fact.

I'm bleeding heavily, have thrown up twice this morning in front of DD and DSD and am having cramps.

DSD (7) hasn't let DP get close to me all weekend. She can't stand anyone else having his attention but herself, it usually doesn't bother me so much but at the moment I'm in need of that affection and struggling to bite my tongue.

They are both currently fighting as I'm writing on here, I'm trying to put my feet up, DP is out at work and I'm pretty mad that I've been left with both of them if I'm really honest. DSD has pushed DD (2) on to a table, she's caught her eye and bruised it so she's been crying hysterically an as a result DSD had a screaming fit because DD was getting attention off me.

I'm really struggling today, I just want to be on my own with DD. Is that understandable?

I usually look after DSD for most of the time he's here and she's usually always pretty demanding but my mood is low and I'm really hurting and struggling today.

DSD has just spat in my face. DP didn't discipline her. I told her to go to her room she screamed and refused Whilst you're miscarrying his baby?

That would be it for me. I could never forgive that from a DP. Nobody is showing you any respect or consideration or even care in your darkest hour. That would tell me everything I needed to know in your position.

I'm so very sorry for what you are going through. It's so sad to read it.

emma, I agree with everyone here, do not have another child with this man, he is not a good partner and father. You are going through hell, he is allowing his dd to treat you like rubbish and spit in your face. When you are able, I would seriously reassess your relationship.

You need out of this relationship.

Awful as this sounds please make sure not to fall pregnant to this pathetic specimen again and make your plans to go your separate way.

Don't waste more of your life with a man like this.

How are you feeling now OP? Like everybody else ive read this thread with my
jaw on the floor at your partner and his mother. You poor thing.

I'm sorry, I missed the spitting incident yesterday. Can you pack a bag for you and dd and stay with relatives over Christmas? I know its very short notice but I couldn't stay there a minute longer.

How are you today Emma?
I'm in west Devon, if I can help at all.

Really hope you're doing okay love - you should not have to put up with such an horrific disregard for your emotional, mental and physical health. You deserve so much more than this. x

I don't think I've got any sensible advice, but I didn't want to scroll past. I hope that you are having a better day and are feeling better xx

How are you today Emma? X

MIL did the know how to use a bank card or anything until after her DH died, then she married her OM and when he left she didn't know how to do anything, DH spent many evenings going through the same things again and again (I personally think she didn't want to be independant, she seems to like relying on people). It sounds like your DP is the same. Who can't use a bank card in this day and age! Crappy childhood or not!

I think you are a saint for putting up with this man child and his brat of a daughter. I'd throw them both out after the spitting incident. How bloody vile!

Didn't know

The way he has treated you is beyond awful. Really, do not accept this, especially not now.

And please get your EPAU to check you over.

Take care. x

darling, you deserve so much better than this.this is not how you should be treated. when you are recovered, think carefully about where your future lies.

Hey Emma how are you today?