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Dogs and Grandchildren

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Lucaslovesfelicity · 20/11/2015 12:40

So, went to visit my mum yesterday who has two large dogs. She absolutely dotes on them and often refers to them has her babies ( she has 3 human babies, as well as 5 human grand children) Wink). I find this all very strange but go along with it.... It's her house, her rules. Anyway, the dogs have absolute free reign of the house and are allowed to sleep in bed at night with both herself and her husband. Everyday, the dogs are cooked a fresh roast chicken dinner..No dog food passes their lips), they are allowed on the furniture and often do try sit at the doing table during meals!! She passes food and drink down to them on plates and mugs from the table..... Ewwwww. I've even caught her emptying out my DD left over formula milk into a bowl to give to the dog, as her baby enjoys it too Confused I have to watch my 4 month when we visit, has she doesn't discourage the dogs from going over to the baby to lick her face. She simply says the dogs think they are human and want to give my LO kiss.... definitely not!! Anyway, the news was on last night which spoke about the police dog that got blew up in Paris. I said to her that although it was sad, it would have been far worse if it had been another human that had been killed. She disagreed and said to me that to her, dogs are on the same level as humans and in fact better than some Hmm I told her that I didn't agree and asked if one of the grandchild was in a house fire along with her dogs or in a situation where a dog had to risk it's life to aid the family, surely the dogs life couldn't be put on the same level as her families? She didn't answer and just went quiet. She went on to say that unless I was a dog owner myself, I wouldn't understand the situation. AIBU to be offended that my kids and my mums dogs are views the same Confused

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Pranmasghost · 23/11/2015 22:07

My beloved 18 year old cat was put to sleep exactly 3 weeks ago. I held her in my arms like a baby while she died. I truly loved that cat.
She was a cat.
I'd have sacrificed her in an instant to protect a child, any child, let alone one of my grandchildren. When one of my grandsons developed a severe allergy to dogs we accepted that we visited them not vice versa and every stitch we wore was bought new and put on in service stations or toilets in trains.
We didn't get rid of the dogs but we didn't replace them when they died.
I have been a loving pet owner all my life and would hate to be without one but they are not more important nor even of equal importance to humans.

KissingFish · 24/11/2015 08:38

You missed the words "in my mind" off the end of your last sentence Wink

Pranmasghost · 24/11/2015 09:42

In one way I suppose I did but, actually, in my mind no caring person would put any animal before any child.

maybebabybee · 24/11/2015 09:43

I can think of many children I know who I can safely say my cats are a vast improvement on.

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