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to be annoyed with DP for saying I love you too much?

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hotlinesling · 09/11/2015 22:12

Every single time I catch DPs eye he tells me he loves me and/or kisses me. Every single text message he declares his love. In person, if I don't reciprocate he says 'I do...I do...' repeatedly until I say it or - more usually - change the subject. The most annoying one is in the morning. He leaves for work an hour before the dc and I need to get up. He can't help himself and always has to whisper I love you before leaving. This 9/10 times wakes the baby. Am I being a heartless cow for wishing he'd stop or am I right to be annoyed?

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DifferentCats · 21/11/2015 14:15

'"total sweetheart" "overbearing"

A contradiction in terms. It isn't possible to be both those things at the same time.'

But Any Fucker, you manage it so well! Smile

definitelybutter1 · 21/11/2015 14:19

It's interesting. MenOpposal is doing it - I'm being so reasonable, look at me, I'm being reasonable, PAY ATTENTION TO ME PAY ATTENTION TO ME PAY ATTENTION TO ME PAY ATTENTION TO ME PAY ATTENTION TO ME PAY ATTENTION TO ME PAY ATTENTION TO ME PAY ATTENTION TO ME PAY ATTENTION TO ME PAY ATTENTION TO ME PAY ATTENTION TO ME PAY ATTENTION TO ME PAY ATTENTION TO ME

But he's only being nice and reasonable and what could be wrong with that? Fortunately AF has the option to ignore him. The poor OP doesn't have the option to ignore her partner. I saw the other thread. Poor kid.

SoDiana · 21/11/2015 14:25

Ok.

Men. You are abusing strong women here, which is the reason (as I read your mind) for the end of your relationship. Or at least that's what your hysterical oh claimed in court?

Op.
This man NEEDS you. It is a red flag to not be autonomous as a human being.
He needs counselling.

Now I am going to get hysterical here...

I would give it six months until the first slap. ' I've tried everything to keep you fucking happy. You have brought me to this'.

Men. Go for it. I'm out of your arm's reach.Wink

LetsDoThis74 · 21/11/2015 15:43

differentcats Grin

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