Think about why the Palestinians and certain Arab Israelis aren't allowed to go where they want.
Because they blow people up. They send rockets into Israel. They are ruled by terrorists. They want to annihilate Israel and all Jews. Israelis, though, except for a few religious nutters in the West Bank, don't want to hurt Palestinians. They just want the violence to stop.
So, imagine, you're living in England and Scottish citizens start sending rockets and bombs and suicide bombers to blow up bus stations and schools, and people are getting stabbed (not that all this is reported outside of England of course)... You'd just say - "fine. No problem, people of Scotland. It's all our fault. We shouldn't be here in the first place." No, you protect your citizens and try to negotiate for peace. (As someone said up thread, it would be helpful to vote out right wing Bibi and Hamas)
As for "child after child after child" dying SillyDippy Haven't you realised yet that Palestinians place their arms in schools, that they fight from behind their own children? It's great PR. (Israel, on the other hand, are crap at PR.)
Of course the Palestinians are suffering and most Israelis and Jews are appalled by it but there's no hatred for Palestinians.
There is, though, and there always has been, hatred for Jews. And anger they're allowed their own state.
So it's unlikely there will ever be peace.
But there will always be ignorance. Especially on Mumsnet.