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MaryBerrysEyelashes · 19/08/2015 22:05

lazygirluk.wordpress.com/2015/08/19/is-it-just-me-thinking-mumsnet-brought-the-dadsec-attack-on-itself/

I'd like to know who the moderators are.

OP posts:
schlong · 20/08/2015 23:06

Beatrix is Swissly becoming my favourite again.

LuisSuarezTeeth · 20/08/2015 23:07

Ah, Twunk, sorry I x posted with you

MistressMerryWeather · 20/08/2015 23:22

Can I ask a question to anyone who has read this whole thread before any deletions.

Did anyone here accuse 20something's blog followers of having mental health problems?

CoteDAzur · 20/08/2015 23:23

No.

MsTargaryen · 20/08/2015 23:27

It must take so much energy and be incredibly draining to be so up for a fight all the time. Tbh I feel a bit sorry for her because she clearly dreams of being a writer but the bit of the blog I read wasn't... very good.

MistressMerryWeather · 20/08/2015 23:31

Right, I thought so.

Well in that case, she is certainly an expert in twisting things.

Someone also called her mental apparently, that just didn't happen.

I think she may be more suited to writing fiction, she does a good job at it already.

MaudGonneMad · 20/08/2015 23:32

Someone also called her mental apparently, that just didn't happen

Ha! Wasn't she the one who called MNers mentalists and nutters? Grin

DollyTwat · 20/08/2015 23:34

Dadsec is linking to her blog as to why he/she did it.
20 I think you are being put in the frame for the hacking because of your blog not quite condoning the attack on MN.

Twunk · 20/08/2015 23:35

I know luisSuarezTeeth it's 15 minutes of my life I won't get back.

Nowt so queer as folk.

DixieNormas · 20/08/2015 23:36

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CoteDAzur · 20/08/2015 23:36

I'm just really amazed that people have the time and energy to regularly read the dull and badly written whines of some "mummy".

Who cares what this woman thinks about some other woman who has said something or other to her at some point in the distant past? Seriously Hmm

Not to sound like a literary snob, but I would heartily recommend getting a Kindle and reading through some modern classics and non-fiction in your free time. I have no doubt that you will find the experience much more interesting and rewarding than battling through the argumentative nonsense in the blogs linked on this thread.

RedToothBrush · 20/08/2015 23:36

I was about to post the following and leave it at that:

Erm I'm going to ignore pretty much everything else on this thread which seems largely unproductive and just comment on Bounty.

Would you like me to explain the poor BULLYING practices that Bounty employed on vulnerable women IN HOSPITAL that MN were opposed to.

The irony of the blog and posts on this thread are really not lost on me in that context.

The fact that they both MN and Bounty have forums is a mute point. MN make money primarily from ADVERTISING. Bounty make money primarily from SELLING YOUR DETAILS.

Since its clear that there is a lot of people on MN not to keen on having their details shared - and with fair and good reason - why is bad to be opposed to that and to highlight what has actually been going? Especially when many women were reporting that their information was being STOLEN or otherwise taken by malicious or dubious practices, some of which may actually fall into the illegal tick box....

Why is making women and hospitals and government aware of the issues surrounding the practices, what rights were being violated and why there was such an appalling conflict of interests going on at the expense of PATIENTS a bad thing?

It has afterall been touted as a 'bad thing' by several parties in various camps over the last few days to pass on personal details and data. Why is it suddenly is deemed acceptable if you through in a couple of discount vouchers and a sample pot of sudacream?

I'm not sure that there could be a more ironic comment really.

Then its dawned on me that 20something's chip probably has something to to do with me as I was a leading voice about Bounty. The funny thing is I didn't want to join in with a lot of the comments on this thread and just wanted to comment on the actual argument rather than personalities... and I didn't even remember the pro-Bounty campaign after the passage of so much time without reading this thread and being reminded of it.

Strangely, despite my feelings, when I was offered a Bounty pack, it was my DH who refused it because I felt so pressured and obliged to take one. Just a few minutes after a lengthy discussion over my mental health. Thus really illustrating to me just how inappropriate Bounty in a hospital setting is and just how hard to say no, actually is even if you REALLY REALLY don't want anything to do with them. Fortunately I never met a Bounty Lady; but then was this because by that point hospitals were a lot more aware of the problem and more sensitive and sympathetic to patients about it?

But yeah. I'm a bitch. I'll happily take that, if its changed the situation with Bounty in hospitals for the better. Next stop, improving maternity services in general....

MistressMerryWeather · 20/08/2015 23:39

Yup.

She also said that she had helped followers of hers who had been through mental breakdowns like herself.

I pointed out that they may take offence at her 'Mentalist' (among other horrible things) comments and she has twisted it into an accusation that all her readers have mental health problems.

It's all very strange.

CoteDAzur · 20/08/2015 23:42

That's not even what the word "mentalist" means.

What on earth does "seeking advice from the people who host my copyright" mean, anyway?

Do her followers actually understand what she says?

Twunk · 20/08/2015 23:47

I love The Mentalist

NeedsAsockamnesty · 20/08/2015 23:59

When people think they can act like compleate cunts of epic antichrist type proportions because it's just straight talking init, yet anybody who points out that they are doing so is a bully.

The whole prison over crowding situation all of a sudden becomes far easier to understand

RedToothBrush · 21/08/2015 00:08

Shame on @NHSHighland for letting those HRT needing harpies at MN bully over Bounty #SayNoToTheBountyMutiny

Yep. Nice.

Its ok to say stuff like that, but not ok to dislike Bounty.

My head hurts.

I need sleep.

WEIRD AS FUCK at the time, and this is EVEN FUCKING WEIRDER 2 years later.

I feel this is a parallel dimension. Has space and time shifted somehow and altered reality?

I feel it maybe time to move along now, shuffling slowly out the door backwards in complete bewilderment, going 'ooooookkkkayyyyy thennnnn'.

multivac · 21/08/2015 00:23

Not to sound like a literary snob, but I would heartily recommend getting a Kindle and reading through some modern classics and non-fiction in your free time

You totally don't sound like a literary snob. You sound like someone with whom I would happily go for a beer. Oh yes.

dodobookends · 21/08/2015 00:28

I've not been on MN all that long, and I'm not one for reading blogs, so I've never before heard of much of what is being discussed on here, and haven't followed any of the links to other content and threads etc.

For what it's worth (and in my undoubted simplistic way) I always thought that hackers do what they do simply 'because they can', and because they like to sit back and watch the pandemonium unfold. All the better then, if a high-profile target is chosen.

Off to bed now, night all.

coffeeisnectar · 21/08/2015 00:33

Princess, that's awful, I'm so so sorry for you and your family having to go through that.

YellowTulips · 21/08/2015 00:37

Well to be fair to 20/lazy she's pulled a blinder in terms of getting hits to her blog Hmm

One of my favourite books is Dune (yes am a sci-fi geek Shock) and there is a scene in the book where the protagonist describes the wounds on dead fishermen's shoulders; derived from them standing on each other's shoulders as they try to reach the last remaining air. He notes that it's understandable on a sinking boat, but very disconcerting to see at the dining table...

....or indeed the blogosphere.

MistressMerryWeather · 21/08/2015 00:57

Oh Yellow I have never read Dune but I plan to now. I absolutely love that.

DH will be incredibly annoyed, he's been trying to get me into sci-fi for years (Fantasy gal here). :o

BrendaandEddie · 21/08/2015 07:33

Well done blogger. Dad sec loves it. He's tweeted it. Go you

TheyreMadITellYouMaaaad · 21/08/2015 07:44

Why does anyone bother engaging with 20? With her combative illogicality, isn't she just proving herself to be another trip-trapping jeffrey?