If a woman genuinely can't cope because of a physical or mental problem, then that should be dealt with by appropriate use of private rooms. However, these are limited - six beds out of around 60 are private on my ward. Or a woman who can't cope with a ward situation should, as far as possible, be encouraged to try a home birth or birthing centre, only coming into the ward if absolutely necessary.
A friend of mine had her second baby about 18 months ago. He had a major and frightening problem at birth and has had medical issues throughout his life. Her husband was away with the army and was unable to get back. She lived in army accommodation with no family and few friends nearby. She coped because she had to, and without being disrespectful to the minority who are genuinely unable to cope, most women would cope if they had to. Some on here who have said they wouldn't would probably have been able to if the wards were staffed with appropriately trained, paid, experienced and criminal record checked staff. And this is what worries me - the reduction in services to save money. The expectation that partners will fill the gap, which leaves the single, widowed and those whose partners can't be there for e.g. childcare or work reasons at a major disadvantage. I will be one of those women disadvantaged by this policy being in place at my hospital. Except I refuse to be disadvantaged. If I need help, I will be making sure I get it. I have a voice, I know how to use it. if I piss people off, so be it. I'm completely against this policy, and if I suffer because of it, the hospital will damn well know about it.