Our wedding package cost £350,000 which included venue, use of marque, lovely 3 course meal for 50 guests, bubbly for toast and 2 bottles of wine per table for meal, evening disco, bacon baps for evening and overnight accommodation for bride and groom including breakfast in morning. The venue was a lovely little Manor House which was exclusive to our wedding party until the next day. We saved money by choosing a Sunday wedding as a Saturday would have cost us double.
My parents gave us 2k and also paid for my dress (bought in Debenhams sale), my sister's bridesmaid dress, seat covers and a harpist. My dad also paid for his own suit hire.
DH's parents contributed another 2k and FIL also paid for his suit hire.
We paid just over a grand on our platinum wedding rings, flowers cost a total of £200 as a friend of mine did them, photographer was a friend's DP so he kindly did it free of charge, registrar fees were around £700 and honeymoon to Sorrento was around 2k.
I would say we kept costs down as much as possible but splashed out a little more on honeymoon and rings. It was the perfect wedding day 