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list of sexual partners

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maxxytoe · 27/06/2015 21:44

so i was over at my friends house earlier this evening. I don't know how we got onto the topic, but she keeps a list of her 'sexual conquests' in the notes on her iPhone Hmm in chronological order
She claims this is normal and everyone has a list
I am confused
Should I have been keeping tabs? Grin

OP posts:
fastdaytears · 28/06/2015 11:47

Can geese even get an STI?

fastdaytears · 28/06/2015 11:49
  1. Y-fronts and chocolate body paint (retro)
reallywittyname · 28/06/2015 11:49

"14. OMG"

Wideopenspace · 28/06/2015 11:51

"41.Philip: the one who cried a little afterwards."

GlitzAndGigglesx · 28/06/2015 11:51
  1. The one with his mums photo on the bedside table
Wideopenspace · 28/06/2015 11:52

Was that Philip, Glitz? Grin

nilbyname · 28/06/2015 11:54

My best/worst one was a trapeze artist Fromm the visiting circus! Grin

Oh to be 23 and without a care!

DJThreeDog · 28/06/2015 11:54

I like lists.

Therefore had the iPhone been around when I was a sexual conquistador I probably would have made one Grin.

There was w thing on Buzzfeed the other day, one of the female reporters did a report on why people think she is a slut. It was horrible. Even her mother was judging her for having sex - even though she acknowledged she actually had no idea!

So long as sex is safe and consensual (and not with someone else's partner - for preference) I say crack on.

NobodyLivesHere · 28/06/2015 11:58

23: the one who's Scottish accent was so thick you gave up asking what his name was after 4 attempts as it was just embarrassing for all involved so you just shoved your tongue down his throat instead.

GlitzAndGigglesx · 28/06/2015 12:06

wideopen now you've mentioned the tears, quite possibly

elementofsurprise · 28/06/2015 12:40

I love this thread! Makes me feel like less of a harlot!

In fact I love this thread so much I want to go to bed with it right now, and then forget it's name tomorrow...

My total is the same as my age but I'm about to have a birthday so I can have a new shag soon

I knew a guy who kept a list... was over 100 on there. He worked all over the world in holiday type places and travelled in between, so had a lot of brief encounters... Catergories were: Name, age, nationality, country he met them in, marks out of ten for sexual ability, ditto for attractiveness. And then a few words to remember them by - a joke they'd shared, or a description, or something memorable.

Only two women on the list had seen it.

Only one had seen it before sleeping with him. who would do such a thing?

He said he wanted to remember everyone, which seemed quite nice, but still...

He also had a terrifyingly huge much larger than average appendage. But I shall remember him for his conspiracy theories Grin

Bunbaker · 28/06/2015 12:40

I can assure you that double standards still exist among teenagers. DD (year 10) tells me a lot of what is talked about at school, and a lot of girls in her year would probably agree with beedee.

Sgtmajormummy · 28/06/2015 12:44

I only have a mental list of the ones that mattered. The others are put down to experience.

RufusTheReindeer · 28/06/2015 12:47

It's a really short list

1....Mr Reindeer!!!!! Grin

I'll get my coat

rockybalboa · 28/06/2015 12:50

I used to have list in my old Filofax. The Filofax went to a charity shop a couple of years ago and I binned the list. I have been with DH for 12 years and suspect it won't get added to. I can't even remember how many there were on it...Blush

Wideopenspace · 28/06/2015 12:50

Ah yes element - Number 15 - the holiday shag who made me wear a tinfoil helmet so 'they' wouldn't monitor my brain waves whilst we did it.

minkGrundy · 28/06/2015 12:51

beedee there's a name for people who refer to other women as slags as well. In fact, there are several.

  1. The man with 'bring it' tattoed on his back Blush gold stars though.Wink
rockybalboa · 28/06/2015 12:51

Oh and my list had my age at the time next to each name.

minkGrundy · 28/06/2015 12:52

Grin wideopen no!! You didn't.

keeptothewhiteline · 28/06/2015 12:58

*beedee there's a name for people who refer to other women as slags as well. In fact, there are several.
*

Is there? I must have lead a sheltered life.

Wideopenspace · 28/06/2015 13:04

Read this this Keep, explains it nicely.

justmyview · 28/06/2015 13:06

I thought the only correct answer to this question was three -

my first love
the bastard who broke my heart
you, darling

beedeepullen · 28/06/2015 13:15

thank you KEEPTOTHEWHITELINE

we must of had the right up bringing were you are learned right from wrong and sleeping around is most definitely wrong.

yes 2 3 4 partners fair enough, when you have to make a list then my lord there must be a few too many.

this is a personal opinion btw and I think people who need to sleep around have serious low self esteem OR maybe they just a total sack of potatoes in the bedroom department therefor no man will stay with them, hence why she maybe still looking for her prince in shining armour.

and imagine if this woman had or went on to have children and found her list of "victims". I don't think that would be a easy thing to explain to your child.

bad example.

STI written all over it

Wideopenspace · 28/06/2015 13:22

bee -If the number you have in mind as acceptable is any more than 1, then your argument falls down.

Also, your opinion, with the greatest of respect, is wrong Grin

FanjoBean · 28/06/2015 13:23

Jesus Christ.

I hope my DD has as much safe and consensual sex with as many partners as she damn well pleases when she grows up.

BeeDee, do you have the same attitudes about men who sleep around? Or is it just women who should avoid enjoyable experiences for fear of being labelled a "slag?"