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Who is unreasonable and how can I be reasonable? Dress codes

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LegalEagels · 26/04/2015 14:24

I work for an international law firm in quite a large office. I manage two interns who are both excellent at their jobs and most probably will be offered training contracts at the end of their internships.

The issue here is: Everyone wears either suits etc or what you'd imagine to be professional gear, however, one of the interns turns up to work everyday in clothes better suited to nightclubs. I personally think she looks good and can carry it off (she's not exactly wearing a red leather catsuit) but I do admit that it's not entirely appropriate or the style the rest of the office adopts. I have no issue with what she wears, tbh she does a great job and it's my goal to help her become a qualified.

One of the managers from another department approached me earlier this week to ask me to talk to her about her appearance / attire. Our office doesn't have an exact policy on dress code but what is acceptable is generally understood. I know that others have gossiped about her choice of clothes. My main manager hasn't mentioned anything to me, but having said that he's generally away from the office so perhaps hasn't noticed or too busy with other things to take notice of an interns choice of clothes.

There is a very real risk that she won't be offered a training contract as it's not just me on the panel that will interview her. And indeed if she's bringing herself this negative attention chances are it looks unlikely.

Now, would it be unreasonable to say something to her? and how without being unreasonable myself? Or should I tell that other manager to keep his beak out? Even though he will most likely be on the panel.

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Emo76 · 01/05/2015 22:53

I'm interested to hear if the advice was heeded.

CheeseandPickledOnion · 02/05/2015 15:19

Me too!

DragonsCanHop · 02/05/2015 17:11

Same here

MissDuke · 02/05/2015 17:55

Also keen for an update!

LegalEagels · 05/05/2015 13:15

I can't really be sure tbh but I don't think it was or it might have had a small effect in so far as wearing a blazer over a body con dress then yes but generally it's been business as usual. Spoke to the other manager to confirm I'd had the chat but thats pretty much it.

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MaidOfStars · 05/05/2015 13:30

So her bottom and underwear are still hanging out?

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