Would that be the bubble where people only have the number of children they can actually afford to feed and clothe, then? Rather than relying on other people working their arses off to pay for them?Few things in life more selfish, immoral and downright nasty than popping out kids you know you can't feed and expecting some other poor fucker to provide for them
I have three children. I am a single parent. I could afford my children before my ex walked out, but there you go, shit happens. Of course, you'll say that's my fault - I'm not educated (I have a Masters degree and a professional qualification), that I didn't know my ex before I had children with him (we had been together 6 years before we had our first child), that I had children young (I was 34 when I had my first), that I should never have given up work (my ex earned a small fortune, we would never have had children if I hadn't stayed at home to support him and besides, we lived in the South East where childcare costs for 3 children not at school came in at over £1,500 a month, the equivalent of £25k full time - I was earning about that, with a £3k commuting cost and tax and NI and pension deductions...).
I work full time. I couldn't actually work any harder as I'm a teacher so I'm out the house at 7:30am and I'm rarely home before 5:30pm. Like all teachers, I work in the evenings. I can't get another job because I need to be at home with my children. I barely see my children as it is. I support them myself - because the Government/CSA/CMS hasn't been able to get any money out of my ex. He's self employed and the Law is such that he can get away with it. According to women like you, that's my fault.
The loss of Child Benefit for one of my children will be, I believe, catastrophic to our family budget. I believe that once I lose the Child Benefit, I will no longer be eligible for Tax Credits for that child either - this is not something that has been said but is logical, given that you need to be in receipt of the Child Benefit or have the right to claim it if your income is over the threshold, to be able to claim Tax Credits. The loss to my monthly budget will be somewhere in the region of £350.
As I said, I work. I support my children as best I can. You can't expect any more of me. Yet you're happy to take £350 a month off me and tell me it's my fault. Personally, I find you immoral and downright nasty but mainly I find you very poorly informed and entirely unable to see the bigger picture. Could you afford to lose that much from your monthly budget and still feed, and clothe your children and keep a roof over your heads?
What do you suggest I do with my children? Hand them over to the State to care for? What else do you want me to do? Do you consider me an irresponsible parent who has had children without giving thought to their longer term care and support? If so, what else could I have done to protect both them and me from this loss to our income?