I think repeatedly telling someone that they haven't worked hard enough at therapy and that is the reason they feed their children fruit is extremely rude personally Janice.
I was and have been open to some sensible suggestions - NOT fish fingers on toast - but the endless 'oh you need counselling' posts have made me completely lose patience I am afraid.
I had counselling, for PND with DD1. Did I work hard (how I hate that; I am not a school child!) - yes. But you know, it is possible that some things stay immensely painful forever. But I don't suppose you care, do you?
My healthy, normal-weight father died of a heart attack aged 66. So yes I am conscious of what I feed the kids. My mother was 52 when she died. My brother died of (we think) an accidental overdose when he was 34.
Ooh that's why you have issues, drip feed - well no. Not quite. It's more to do with sick and vomit believe it or not.
I'm including that information because you know you DON'T get over stuff like that. It gets less painful but it always leaves you breathless with grief at times.
I do try. I am concerned with animal welfare and choose not to eat meat. Some may shriek 'controlling' but no more so than Christian parents bringing up their children to be Christian, for example.
Dress it up how you like; people have got upset because I said I personally find eating as soon as you get up greedy. I do. That's me -
It isn't a reflection on anybody else.
No more from me. You have really pissed me off.