To not know where to start and I am rubbish

[candyflosssky]

I am fucking hopeless.

I have realised that aged 33 and supposedly have a degree, yet am still completely, utterly thick.

I honestly sometimes think there is something wrong with me.

Anyway, I'm trying to get DH to move out. He says this is stupid and I would never cope he may be right.

I don't know:

about money
about bills
about anything.

Boilers gone. I don't even know who our fucking electricity company are.

I don't know what I'm going.

Hurrah! One up for Apple, eh?

Does he have his own tablet? They're not sync'd in any way, are they?

I am a bit worried about this.

How do I change the password?

Can you look it up online? I don't know, sorry.

And by the way, just a reminder that you must Must MUST find out who your internet provider is ASAP in case he closes that down - you will be utterly isolated with no internet and no phone.

Have you contacted women's aid yet? difficult without a phone, obviously, but you really need the info.

Your password on the Cloud is your apple ID. Instructions for changing that are here. Do it ASAP. It's important that you keep everything on your Cloud personal as all email, numbers, photos, internet history will be on there.

support.apple.com/en-gb/HT201355

Find out your internet service provider here:

www.whoismyisp.org/

Try to see if you can claim child tax credits. They are fairly quick at sorting out claims if you get them now before the big rush in April. Also contact CMS to get payment straight from his wages don't allow them to talk you into a personal arrangement as there is no comebacks on him if he refuses to pay afterwards. Tell them how he has just taken every penny in the joint acct and left you and your baby pennyless.

Maybe see if the account is still open it could have an overdraft facility. Could get you a few hundred out

Does he have an apple device too?

Do you share an iTunes or Apple account? If so he might be able to access all your emails and texts?

If you haven't already ..

You NEED TO CHANGE YOUR EMAIL ACCOUNT PASSWORD

ALSO, Depending what type of email account you have you MUST check that he hasn't set up an automatic forwarding address in the account which sends a copy of ALL your email correspondence to him.