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To ask how I can explain to DH why page 3 was wrong?

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Ifyourawizardwhydouwearglasses · 20/01/2015 23:03

He just thinks it was harmless. 'If you don't like it, don't look.' I'd like to educate him but I can't seem to find the words.

He's intelligent but can't seem to get this one.

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Norland · 22/01/2015 17:39

Yeah, I sorta get your point Omni; however my point was more about Will Ferrell user name implying WF is 'hot' in a sexual way and at the same time decrying the whole P3 thing.

I don't give a stuff one way or another but some of you on here do bite and flare up at any suggestion that somebody might think differently to you.

Stalin killed an estimated 50 million during his time in power; quite a few of those got the chop for not thinking his way. Mao Tse-tung did the same in The Great Leap Forward.

Norland · 22/01/2015 17:41

Your posts make you sound like the worst sort of paternalistic sexist twat, Norland

Thanks AF, sums me up admirably. Surely you can do better than that though?

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 22/01/2015 17:43

Stalin? Can I call Godwins? I know he didn't actually say Nazi, but close enough.

Women having opinions and campaigning against being objectified in National Press equals Stalin and Mao Tse Tung. Yeah right.

You lose, Norland.

Willferrellisactuallykindahot · 22/01/2015 17:43

Norland FYI, under my understanding anyway, the word 'hot' can include things under a slightly larger umbrella than the size of someone's cock/boobs. Which I am afraid can't be said of Page 3.

grimbletart · 22/01/2015 17:48

Remember the Sun is the "newspaper" that libelled an entire city.

So don't expect decent. It doesn't do decent. It doesn't do 21st century. It doesn't even do proper news. It's just a comic that comes out every day produced by admittedly slick journalists frozen permanently in adolescence.

All newspaper sales are falling. The Sun's fell by nearly 10% in the 12 months between June 2013 and June 2014 and is still declining. Its circulation has fallen by well over a million since 2008.

Every now and then it gets a temporary boost by PR and promotional activities but the relentless downward trend then continues.

The page 3 con is simply the latest wheeze to reverse its inevitable decline All pretty puerile stuff really. But then the Sun does do puerile really well.

But it won't stop circulation falling……their desperation is palpable.

They really need to hang on to all the slack-jawed page 3 dribblers out there poor loves.

Norland · 22/01/2015 17:50

Thanks Will. So that's your viewpoint; fair enough, everybody is entitled to their perspective of the world, I wouldn't dream of attemtping to force the rest of the world to live according to my rules.

On the other thread, referenced further up this one, GingerCuddleMonster says:

'though I don't condone page 3, this has been played very well by the paper/business. I think old RM may have read the art of war shock....'

"If your opponent is of choleric temper, seek to irritate him. Pretend to be weak, that he may grow arrogant."

She posted that in the early hours of today. Seems it's not just men who think this is a PR exercise. Guess that old chestnut about fooling all the people some of the time etc. etc. holds true.

YonicScrewdriver · 22/01/2015 17:51

You think there's no difference between saying an individual is kinda hot and "yeah, gimme a different pair of tits everyday, I love looking at tits, occasionally i might read the name and age to see if my helping of tits is late teens or early twenties today"

Ok doke.

Icimoi · 22/01/2015 17:52

Are you saying, that your view is the owners of The Sun should be acting in a way that will benefit society (as you see society in 2015) as opposed to trying to sell copies of their rag, to enhance their profits?

I think the point is more that the owners of The Sun should be acting in a way that will not harm society, and/or that will not harm a very substantial proportion of society. They might, for instance, enhance their profits yet further by being more overtly racist than they already are, but I think we can agree that is not a path they should go down.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 22/01/2015 17:55

I don't see anything remotely sexist, offensive or objectifying about Will's username, and she's already explained her choice of username to you at length Norland.

Calling a film star 'kinda hot' is not on a par with the everyday objectification of countless women in the Sun.

Willferrellisactuallykindahot · 22/01/2015 18:02

Oh and can I add that I have no idea about the size of Will Ferrell penis.

Willferrellisactuallykindahot · 22/01/2015 18:02

*Ferrell's

Norland · 22/01/2015 18:08

Ok Sabrina but just because you don't see anything remotely sexist, offensive or objectifying about Will's username, doesn't mean to say everybody else agrees with your viewpoint.

To say that because you don't and imply that if anybody does they're wrong, is attempting to force other humans to share your viewpoint.

Hitler/Chairman Mao/Stalin et al

Nancy66 · 22/01/2015 18:09

All newspapers are losing sales (apart from The Times) The Sun is losing them at a slower rate than other dailies.

TheRealAmandaClarke · 22/01/2015 18:10

im not sure why its been left to the paper itself to decide about withdrawing page 3. I think it dhould be banned tbh.

Its really disturbing (to anyone who isnt a misogynist) that our country sanctions the sexual objectification of women in this way.
I simply don't want my daughter to be subjected to the influence of this everyday porn. Its insidious.
As a woman in her forties I expect to be told that I am just jealous. But I felt the same when I was a late teen with fabulous gravity-defying tits.
Its not just a bit of fun.
It is damaging.

But as its only damaging to women as a whole, and as some people make a lot of money out of it, and it supports our patriarchal culture, then I can see it will be here to stay.

TheRealAmandaClarke · 22/01/2015 18:13

There is nothing sexist about will's username
Just becaue you say er is, does not make it so.
Considering someone to be sexually attractive is not sexist
Sanctioning the presence of a young, bare- breasted female in a daily paper for the purpose of offeing sexual decoration is sexist.

I appreciate that some people want to defend it. Some people are sexist.

Norland · 22/01/2015 18:16

No Amanda, there is nothing sexist about will's username to you

You are saying your viewpoint is more important than mine. You are attempting to enforce your thinking on me. You are saying you are more important than me. You are saying I must follow your thought-process.

Willferrellisactuallykindahot · 22/01/2015 18:16

Wait, wait, wait - you are comparing people objecting to Page 3 with Hitler and Stalin?

Ok, you are obviously on the wind up so I shall be ignoring you now.

AnyFucker · 22/01/2015 18:20

Just ignore. He'll fuck off and irritate someone else soon.

TheRealAmandaClarke · 22/01/2015 18:22

Norland
Are you jealous of will ferrell becaue will finds him attractive?

Your "argument" about this being a subjective issue holds no water.
You can say that its sexist to suggest an individual is attractive.
But it isnt.

The same as its not racist to say that Will Smith is attractive.
But placing a photograph in a daily paper of a bare-arsed black male could be considered both racist and sexist.
Eve if he was being paid for the photograph.

Willferrellisactuallykindahot · 22/01/2015 18:22

Oh and I explained that its not Will Ferrell's looks I find particularly hot, but him as a whole - I explained this at length and what i mean in my username by the word 'hot' but you have chosen to completely ignore it and continue to bang on about your interpretation.

Poor Will and his gun show getting caught in the middle of this!

Norland · 22/01/2015 18:23

Will, you are so quick, you could run around in the rain and not get a drop on you.

AF, where's the eloquent and witty responses you're so famous for?

As I said on the other thread, don't forget to cancel your Sky telly package. You should probably avoid buying any glossy mags as well, all the pics are touched up to enhance busts and remove blemishes.

TheRealAmandaClarke · 22/01/2015 18:23

I am not saying that my viewpoint is more important than yours.
I am saying that you are wrong.
Because you are.

Norland · 22/01/2015 18:25

Amanda, that's exactly what Stalin said 'you are wrong'

www.gendercide.org/case_stalin.html

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 22/01/2015 18:25

Calling me Stalin &co isn't going to win your argument, Norland. No, it isn't sexist to find someone attractive or 'kinda hot'. You just thought you'd be kinda clever on this thread by picking apart some imaginary hypocrisy - when there is none.

However, page 3 is sexist - and feeds into the culture of women being there for decoration only, to be judged on looks and boobs and nothing else. A culture that is damaging to women.

A man objecting to the wholesale sexualisation of young women. Shock No doubt you and the guys at Wapping dismiss him as some hairy armpitted leftie though.... Or Mao Tse-tung.

TheRealAmandaClarke · 22/01/2015 18:29

Stalin said I am wrong?
Or that you are wrong?

Why are you so into Stalin? Thats a bit disturbing.

Are you not aware that some things can be objective demonstrated and others are subjectively experienced?
Its hard on here to determine whether someone is a complete fuckwit or not so I have to ask

Although its getting easier.

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