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AIBU or is dh

131 replies

ineedsomeinspiration · 16/12/2014 22:23

I have spent the best part of two hours attempting to decorate ds a third birthday cake. He requested a sweetie train cake which I have tried my best to do.
Now I will confess it does look a bit like a boat and not exactly professional but a lot of love went in to it.
DH laughed at it and said it was shit and ds will probably say its rubbish.
Now I'm right pissed off with him. He thinks I'm being over sensitive. Aibu or is he?

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skittycat · 17/12/2014 07:22

All I would do is to stick an extra wheel on the train near the front if you've got any spare as I think it's the front shape that makes it look slightly boaty.

Regardless, it looks fantastic and I'd wager is far better than your partner could achieve.

mimiasovitch · 17/12/2014 07:32

I think that is an awesome cake, and way better than anything I could do. He's a very lucky birthday boy, and he will love it Grin

ninetynineonehundred · 17/12/2014 07:44

After the nemo disaster at this end that even two year olds wouldn't eat I'd be proud to have made a cake like that.
Your husband is being very unkind

FunkyBoldRibena · 17/12/2014 07:53

So, your husband wont be partaking if he thinks it is shit, will he?

Next year, let him make the cake and show you how it is done.

ASunnyTiger · 17/12/2014 07:57

There's only one thing wrong with this thread, not enough cake pictures! Also for all you creative bakers, did you learn techniques from a particular book/website, or did you just wing it?

Great job on the cake OP. I agree with others that your DH is being an arse.

LeapingOverTheWall · 17/12/2014 08:21

I agree with maybe an extra set of wheels at the front, and i'd try piping a little bit of buttercream or icing on the cake board to give the impression of more squareness at the front. But I love the carriages Smile

(your DH is an arse btw)

DixieNormas · 17/12/2014 08:37

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ohtheholidays · 17/12/2014 08:38

I'll type out what I just said out loud when I saw it It's fucking Brilliant Grin .He's talking out of his arse and is probably jealous tell him to sod off!

YesIDidMeanToBeSoRudeActually · 17/12/2014 08:56

Stealth boast, OP! Smile

Homemade cakes are always the best. I managed to fuck up a Halloween zombie cake so spectacularly this year, the DC actually thought it was a Minecraft cake and were very impressed! Naturally, I said nothing.

Triliteral · 17/12/2014 08:57

Maybe he's jealous because his mum never made him such an exciting cake. I think it's great as well. Please do let us know how DS reacts.

bilbodog · 17/12/2014 09:06

that cake is so cool................ agree with all the other comments so far! Have a wonderful day!

londonrach · 17/12/2014 09:09

All the cakes look amazing. Agree with others re extra wheels at front to make it less boat like but tbh its perfect as it is and any 3 year old would see its a train. Its got wheels!

katrina81 · 17/12/2014 09:14

It's brilliant, your DS will love that.

GristletoeAndWhine · 17/12/2014 09:37

That cake is far better than anything I have ever attempted. Well done.

loveareadingthanks · 17/12/2014 11:55

The only way it looks even slightly boaty is because of the way the bottom edges of the engine flare out a bit instead of being straight down. But I only noticed that because I was looking for something. If you hadn't mentioned it I would have seen 'train'.

I think it's brilliant and your son will be over the moon.

SoonToBeMrsB · 17/12/2014 11:57

It looks great, tell your DH to fuck off and make his own cake if he wants some.

pictish · 17/12/2014 12:02

Your wee son will be delighted with that cake! It's bloody brilliant!
Your dh is an arse. A massive, rude arse.

HesterShaw · 17/12/2014 12:04

Late to party but that is a FUCKING AWESOME CAKE. Your husband is mean and rude, and you should be delighted and proud of it.

There.

HSMMaCM · 17/12/2014 12:04

If DS says it looks like a boat (he won't), tell him it's an amphibious train and he'll be even more inpresed.

HesterShaw · 17/12/2014 12:05

I don't even care if the thread was a stealth boast. OP you have set the birthday cake bar very high.

youareallbonkers · 17/12/2014 12:12

That's great. Your son will love it.

Aherdofmims · 17/12/2014 12:15

It is awesome and doubly so because you made it.

SecretLimonadeDrinker · 17/12/2014 12:25

Cake = Awesome
Your DH = Arse

HTH Wink

Tinkerball · 17/12/2014 12:36

I managed to fuck up a Halloween zombie cake so spectacularly this year, the DC actually thought it was a Minecraft cake and were very impressed! Naturally, I said nothing

Xmas Grin
duckyneedsaclean · 17/12/2014 12:37

That's an great train cake. If you want to see a crap cake, here's my attempt at a mr dinosaur cake. I quote: "hmmmm.... is it a fish?"

AIBU or is dh