Will try to be brief.
Friend came round this morning to see our new place. We moved in a week ago.
It's got brand new [cream] carpets through-out.
As anyone in London can testify today was wet and there has been plenty of rain in recent days.
We are strictly shoes off at the moment, due to aforementioned carpet and I know a lot of people disagree with this in principle but lets not concentrate on that.
Friend turns up with her 3 year old son, he is in his rain stuff including wellies as is she. I greet them in hallway and tell them to take shoes off. Nothing rude or argumentative and friend knows I have had carpet put in, she also knows how much it bloody cost.
Friend obliges and takes her boots off but says "it took me forever to get him dressed today can I leave his boots on and give them a wipe", I politely say he needs to take them off to which I get greeted with a sigh but still she doesn't make any moves to take the boots off. She then says "look you know how hard it is for me to get him dressed, can we just not pop up and I'll keep him in kitchen"
I then try to speak to child directly and cajole him to take his boots off (think along the lines of "take your boots off sweetie and you can go up to see the cat and J's bedroom with all his toys") to which my friend says - words to the effect of 'do you know what we'll leave coming up today, I've told you twice that I am not taking his boots off' and she then proceeded to put her boots back on, frogmarch her child out of the door whilst muttering 'good luck Hyacinth with your two kids and cream carpet'
Now this is a friend I have know for almost 20 years, someone who is normally the kindest, sweetest person and her behaviour was very out of character.
I waited for an apology and it never arrived so an hour later I messaged to see if she was OK and ask what was going on to which I got a shitty reply which was "I am fine, I just don't want my son to come and play in a house full of rules and regulations, good luck if you think your kids are never going to mess your carpet up"
I replied and explained that it might seem over zealous but the carpet is just 10 days old and I not happy for dirty wellies to be worn.
Friend then replied and said she was out having some un-regulated fun with her son and she would contact me when she had calmed down.
What the actual fuck. I turned my phone off as I didn't trust myself to reply.
Where can I go with this
In all our years of friendship I've never had anything like this with her?
AIBU?
To tell my friend to fuck off and never speak to her again?
Mammanat222 · 23/11/2014 17:34
Some of the most entertaining threads turned out to be trolls
Pur-leeze lets not have a discussion about trolls!!
My twiggy shit has no lights 
Yes they hide crap under my beds so they have to stay. 
Going to home base tomorrow and getting those twigs!
I just don't care now.
Toddlers bring it on. I laugh In the face of muddy wellies if I have my twigs.
My valences only hide dust bunnies - the hoover died after trying to eat them
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