I haven't noticed much No voter back-patting, although I haven't been on here much. I think we've been pretty restrained, much more so than I think Yes voters would have been if they'd won, and very much aware that a lot of people are upset they didn't get the result they wanted.
But I am getting fed up of people shouting for another vote straight away, and claiming that I have been tricked and lied to. I made my choice. Others made theirs. We all made them for our own reasons - some straightforward, some complex. We have been through a very intensive, emotional, and tiring process. We need to come to terms with it, and move on with the situation we have now. To me, that means working for the best deal for all areas of the UK, and getting on with running all areas of the UK.
I couldn't agree more, OOAOML. I can empathise with the huge disappointment of the Yes voters - they came so close to realising this huge dream that they have held for so long - and that is why I have been careful not to crow about the result, and why I appreciate that a lot of the furore that is going on now, with calls for Scotland to seek independence without another referendum, or to have another one in 2020 etc etc, are part of the grieving process. But it is making me very uncomfortable indeed. During the campaign Yes voters said that, whatever the result, Scotland should come together and move forward - something they are struggling to do, in the wake of a No vote. Maybe they were counting on it being the Better Together supporters who were going to have to suck it up and move on?
It is starting to look to me as if the SNP did not have a plan B for what would happen if they didn't win the vote.