Can I just draw your attention to the other 12 threads PansOtherPeople because we are all tired, and emotional and a bit nervous and fed up? You seem to have arrived, all feisty like, and for some of us, this is not just a political thing. For me, it is visceral, I feel it in my guts, and my bones. Someone earlier compared it to an exam but, to be honest, you usually have a sense of how you have done in an exam, it is a choice, you can work hard to make it go right. Someone else though, compared it to getting medical test results where you could be fine, you could be very ill.
I think it is most like the second - like when I had amino for my DD who might have been very unwell. It took 3 weeks and there wasn't a bloody thing I could do to make those cells grown, change things. I read, I researched, I chatted - but it was all out of my hands. But she could have been very sick and she would have died.
In the end, she was fine and DH has just returned from a bit of a praise fest for her at school. But it was hard. This is bloody hard. I am bloody British and really proud of it. Mo Farah. Strawberries. Tablet. Wet picnics with wasps. Bloody, fucking British and some fuckers are trying to take that away.
Sorry, as you were. Read the other 12 threads for wonderful analysis, a few misjudged comments, some amazing posters.
But don't ever, ever belittle people's feelings.