you will be at the back of the queue and at the mercy of Spain, Belgium, France and Italy - with nascent seperatist movements who they wish to discourage
I live in Lombardia. Surrounded by Lega Nord enthusiasts. On matters such as immigration (including the "immigration" of S. Italians to the North of the country) they make UKIP look like a bunch of bleeding heart liberals and Deep Thinkers. The union of regions as the nation of Italy is significantly younger than the union between Ennland and Scotland. People still think in terms of their regional identity as being some way before their national identity in terms of importance. As unions go it has a degree fragility at certain stress points.
I have nothing against Scotland being indpedendent. Not my business, nor my problem. But an overegged, over excited Lega Nord is both my business and my problem. iScotland probably does have to be left out of the EU in order not to create an even larger issue than already exists. Italy can't be expected to place a greater priority on Scotland than on the security of the continued existence of its own unified nation.
Letting an iScotland into the EU could end up being like pouring petrol on the cinders of the Lega Nord campfire. Unsurprisingly quite a lot of people, who would be hard pushed to trace the Scottish boarder on a (not political) map ....don't fancy getting burnt.
I wouldn't expect Italy to go first in terms of a veeto. They'd vote yes as long as they were sure another country was coming in with a respunding no. But if push came to shove, I'd bet my house on a "no" from Italy in the name of not slowing down the economy even further by allowing Lega to have new life breathed into it.
If iScotland were allowed into the EU, I'd had have to move. The Lega Nord fuckers are dangerous, stupid and prone to violence. Pumped up and using iScotland as "proof" that an independent Padania Plain could still be in the EU ... I personally would not risk keeping my family in that kind of tinder keg enviroment. It was bad enough with things like the "White Christmas" vigilantism. But it could so very easily get so much worse and bloodier given the rage (and immigrant blaming) at the depths of the economic downturn of today. Not helped by the fact that while things are turning the corner elsewhere in the EU, they aren't here.