Just sent wrong text to playdate horrors mother

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Oh please help me I'm mortified!! I've just had a play date from HELL and to I went to text my best friend (who would find it hilarious) all about it, outlined everything horrible that he did but I sent it to the little boys mother. I feel like crying.

Is there anyway out of this, I used him name and I ended with "never to return again"

Sound?

Yup that is karma.

Kinda serves you right for being a) judgey and b) bitching about it.

Nobody ever knows what is around the corner... You never know if your DC will embarrass you or behave appallingly .

Ooh yes I'd go with Jackies sorry, I didn't intend to hurt your feelings..... text.

I think it's probably best to say something else.

Has the message delivered/been read? You could go over to her house and wrestle her phone from her hand if it hasnt

Oh dear

Agree with the 'bad day' advice.

Hand-holds OP

Bloody hell op I feel sick on your behalf! I would probably move house and change the dcs school as this would stress me out!

thats the risk you take being two faced

Completely agree with Sanity.

I wouldn't have had him back for a playdate anyway and I had been fairly honest with his mother as it wasn't the first (or second) time.

I still feel dreadful though because she's a nice woman

Oh dear. Maybe the mother will be (secretly) grateful to know what happened - especially if he only gets asked places once.

It's so easy to do isn't it. (I mean send a text to the wrong person). I'd follow up with an apology text. Does your friend know this mum & child?

the little boys mother is probably feeling a hell of a lot worse than you right now, believe me

Oh dear but ha ha maybe she will see it as tongue in cheek and reply back in the same manner

Move house, false tache and pretend you don't speak English.
Or apologise for the text whilst stating that the child was a little shit spirited.

You've just got to send a message saying you're sorry you were being a twat, please forgive you. Don't try and make excuses etc.

And yes the poor mum.

You might feel mortified - but she probably feels crushed and tearful .

What were you complaining about? Based on your last post, you've probably done her a favour.

for you op......if play date horrors mum is on here then..... for you too.

Oh no!

Do the people who are saying I was being bitchy and two faced really not discuss these things with friends??

I'm not posting the message I sent because so many of you don't seem to understand there was honestly no malice intended other than to give my friend a good laugh!

Ouch. Apologise OP, that is going to sting her, even if her DS is a horror and she fully knows this. At best she's going to go into a sweary battle with you, at worst she's weeping right now because her kid's a horror and other people don't want him around and she doesn't know what to do.

What exactly happened on the play date?

Still waiting to hear the contents of the message!

all you can do is apologise. Dont make excuses. Youve been a cow and admit this has just bit you on the arse. No matter how badly the playdate went, theres no reason to bitch about a little boy like that without even being diplomatic about it, even if that is how you and your friend like to spend your time.