I've just got really annoyed with dh because he said the tea lady at work is lovely & really 'cheers him up' - AIBU?

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He said she's attractive and when she asks him if he's had a good day she sounds like she really means it - he went on to say she's like that with everyone, but it was when he said she really cheers him up I got a bit annoyed.

Was I being unreasonable?

Glad we have all helped!

settingsittingFrom your posts I think the way you 'read' people is to covertly wait outside to 'meet' someone and then make snap judgements about them.

OP, glad it's sorted, fair play for admitting you were BU, hope things get better.

glad you're feeling better OP.

FWIW my husband works with dancers, day in day out. Yeah, that makes me feel good about my flabby overhang! But that's my problem, not his or theirs. And in fact it's not actually a problem because even though they are stunningly beautiful (yes, all of them!) and I'm aware he's got eyes in his head, he loves me and I trust him. That's what matters.

This would annoy me too! I mean we all find people attractive but why say it?! He needs to learn to keep these thoughts to himself.